Place your finger deep inside her slit. Pull and push, not too fast not to slow. Add your tongue to her erect clit, and that will just about make her cum! TheArtofCunnilingus.com
In this edition of our educational video series, we focus on adding a new element to the blowjob: hands. Specifically, this is about using both hands in addition to the mouth to create a blowjob experience for those who tend to enjoy (or even prefer) manual stimulation.
Blending these two techniques is a wonderful way to make oral pleasure (and even orgasms from oral sex) possible for people who are less familiar with blowjobs.
The Thicker, The Better!
A thick saliva is created when she takes you deep in her mouth. It takes time to obtain a suitable thickness of saliva. She has to start slowly always trying to go a little deeper and hold it there as long as she can. Her saliva will gradually thicken if she does not swallow it. Try to keep it sloppy all the way thru. A thick saliva can be better than lub, it tastes good, and if she needs more, she can go a little deeper on you.
Oral Sex Gymnastics
You don’t need to try all of these positions tonight, but good for you if you do 😉 Position is not everything, vary your technique, take breaks to look into her eyes, touch and kiss one another to make it last. If you look for new ideas, you will be surprised how creative you can be!
On Her Knees
This position is probably the most common, but it’s also one of the least comfortable. It is great because it leaves the hands free to stroke, but her knees will probably hurt after 5 minutes. Other important detail, you roughly need to be the same height as your partner if you want to have enough access to the crotch area.
Super easy position! She stills have her hands free to cup your balls, stroke your shaft, whatever your fancy. And everyone is comfortable for a long lasting oral session!
Man On Top
As the man, you have a great view and control over your climax. She doesn’t really get tired because she is laying down under you. She can push on your ass if she wants you deeper.
The woman is on her side and the man too. The man can even see the whole body of the woman making it more exciting for him. He has access to his hands to guide her towards his pleasure!
For the women who love giving blowjobs. This position is trickier. The man owns all of the control. And if your man loves to be in control that is definitely a position he will love!
Get The Best BJ!
BJs are about trust and satisfaction! A blowjob is as much for you as it is for her. You can both enjoy the experience. That’s why if she’s doing something you don’t like, you should find a way to tell her! Okay, saying it out loud is not for everyone. So here’s what you can try first!
Okay, saying it out loud is not for everyone. So here are a few alternatives, you can try first, on what you can do to get better blowjobs from your girlfriend!
She’s Too Shy
As soon as you drop your pants, she becomes shy and doesn’t really know what to do with your cock. Start slowly; you don’t want to scare her off.Add some of your masturbations tricks to the mix. Gently take her hand and place it over yours while you stroke. There are many ways to show her what makes you feel good. Close your eyes and accentuate your moans as she moves the way you like it. That way she will feel less foolish around your cock.
Too Much Teeth
You’re dealing with a shark attack every time she goes down there!?! There is an easy way to get rid of teeth. And it also works, if she is trying to go deeper, then her mouth allows. You know when your cock head hits the back of her throat in an uncomfortable way.
Take control of your cock. Hold your length, placing your hand as close as possible from your pubis. You want your hand to act as a buffer. That way she doesn’t go too far down. That keeps your cock clear of the back of her mouth and her sharp teeth. You can even masturbate. With only your tip available to her, she will licks, kiss and sucks it. You don’t have to worry about your valuable member. As she gains expertise, you can loose a few fingers from your grip, letting her go deeper.
Good For You
There are many ways to keep control over your junk while teaching her what makes you feel good. Don’t be shy trying these tricks. Your girlfriend will gain confidence as she sees you enjoying yourself and soon master the art of the blowjob.
You can always try visual support and learn together with TheArtofBlwojob’s Educational Series. Click Here to watch the 25 videos!
Her Responses to DT
Eye watering is not a bad thing! Do not worry she is not crying. To open her mouth that wide and feel you back there, will make her eyes water. Breathing can be hard, but let her take control. She will go to her own rhythm it easier for her to take breaks and breath. Once she is comfortable, you can take the lead, she will adjust to your rhythm. Do not push her too hard and too long, if she has too much difficulty breathing she will gag.
Not A Bad Thing
During deepthroat many women will experience the gag reflex, eyes watering and difficulty breathing. There are tricks to makes all of those discomforts go away when she gives you a blowjob. The gag reflex is one of the hardest to overcome because it is a natural response to choking. She as to very relax and do as if she is swallowing your member. Her throat will widen, given her more space to accommodate you. Her body will find it normal that something is tingling the back of her amygdala, making the gag reflex disappear.