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Sex Box

Now, this is pretty interesting.  And no, it’s not an XBOX that you can have sex with…  There’s a new show coming out on a popular UK television station called Sex Box, which aims to “reclaim sex from pornography” and it has me thinking beyond entertainment value…  Is that a good idea?  Or, rather, is it even necessary?

A huge aspect of this for me is what exactly constitutes porn…  Do they mean every single existing pornographic video, including what I do?  Or are they talking about mainstream porn?  It seems that most people are REALLY talking about mainstream porn, and that shouldn’t be the only representation of sex, to be sure…  But how intellectualized/fancy does filmed sex have to be before it’s reclaimed?  Can the performers be paid?  Can the performers make a living on the videos they’ve made?  I’m sure the couples in this TV show at least got paid to take part.

As far as I understand, the couples have sex in a fairly small box (the sex box!) and then talk about their sex life, both immediate and (I assume) more long-range with a bunch of experts.  I can’t tell if they actually show any footage from the box or if it’s just a gimmick/way to get the couples thinking very actively about sex, but the discussion of sex seems to be the forefront of the show.  And that’s good!  We should all be talking more about sex.  But can’t porn be a part of that?

It’s the same as it ever was, at least lately…  Various pop culture companies try to distance themselves from the concept of porn, explaining why their version of filming sex is different and better, but it seems like these people have very narrow concepts of the adult industry and assume that sex can’t be both real and on film unless it’s shot their particular way.  Of course, it’s hard to identify where that line is…  For instance, I’d consider The Art of Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob to be porn (however beautiful!) while I would consider the new site to be more focused on the erotic and the personal, with sex as a part of that.

So, what does this mean?  Can varying levels of porn and “non-porn” sex videos live in harmony?  I think the solution is more and variety, not less and exclusivity.  What do you think?

YNOT Awards Nomination

The Art of Blowjob is nominated for best niche site.

Guess what!  The Art of Blowjob just received a nomination for the third annual YNOT Awards!  We’re up for Best Niche Site, which is quite an honour.  Considering it’s very largely a business to business-oriented awards ceremony with a few spaces for content creators, it’s pretty exciting to be selected!  It’s always interesting to be seen as a niche, when that tends to go more the fetish/kink route, but I’m quite happy to represent blowjobs thoroughly.

Unfortunately, the voting process is only open for business to business people within the porn communities as opposed to all porn enthusiasts, so I can’t ask you to cast your ballot (unless you work in porn, in which case: go for it!) but I just wanted to share this lovely little win for beautiful porn.  As I always say, it’s very gratifying to get a nod from the mainstream for our work.

Now, back to working on this week’s updates!  I’m sure you’ll enjoy them.

Summer 2013 Cumshot Compilation

Sexy redhead Camille Crimson taking many cumshaws

They say to give the people what they want, and one thing that we’ve heard absolutely resounding positive feedback for is cumshot compilations.  Who doesn’t love seeing burst after burst of gorgeous orgasmic force rushing through?  This is a special capture of our summer 2013 antics, full of lush, bright natural light, a few of our little travels and even a cameo from an earlier Florida shot, which is summery just because it was essentially summer there.

You may notice that the end of this video harkens back to a very special blooper which still makes us collapse into fits of giggles to this day.  There is nothing more surprising than seeing a spurt with a serious bit of momentum when you’re not expecting it.  I’ve tried to be a bit more careful about where I aim that thing now…  Just in case it decides to fire wildly again.

There’s a little taste to be had with a still and the description, but the full video entitles you to, well, the full video.  And that’s a whole lot of cumshots – facials, swallowing, cleavage…  I really mean a whole lot.  Let me know what you think of this very special summer edition of our favourite cumshots!

Glory Hole

Sweet sucking at a glory hole

Okay, so, first off just to be clear: this is not taken at a real glory hole…  We utilized a partition in our room to make it feel like his penis was the only focus, like at a glory hole.  I knew very well that it was Mike on the receiving side.  ;)  The whole concept of a disembodied penis to pleasure can be very sexy when you feel safe, which is exactly what we did in this video.

A lot of it was about getting into the mindset that I would honestly know Mike’s penis anywhere.  If there were a lineup of a million, I’d spot his right away.  That’s the kind of familiarity that comes from years upon years together, but also from being really present when I give him blowjobs.  It’s wonderful to be able to escape into this kind of fantasy because it’s so grounded in a beautiful mutual understanding.  We just get each other, sexually of course in this case, but also in every other way.  Even with our playful attempts at roleplaying here to explore different dynamics, it’s always set on the foundation of love.

I wish for all of you all this kind of experience.  Hearing comments of the wonderful ways people can explore and play together while still staying respectful, connected and loving is such a great aspect of this blog, so I hope that this video echoes that beautiful sentiment.  Let me know what you think!  The still and description will give you an idea, and then the full video will certainly show you exactly what I mean.

So Hard

Sexy and sensual blowjob

Penises are pretty marvellous things.  I mean, so is the human body in general, but I have my biases.  But they have such variance in their degree of erection/hardness from day to day.  My blowjobs keep Mike very happy and always quite erect, but there are specific moments sometimes where he is just so hard that it defies all logic.  I love that.

This video is a classic example of one of those moments.  In fact, this may be the hardest I have ever felt him in the nearly two decades we’ve been together.  (It feels wild to even type that.  Time flies when you’re having fun!)  He just felt like a rock.  No, harder.  What’s harder than a rock?  But really, it was especially sexy and sensual to know that he was so undeniably turned on.  We were groping and grasping for each other like a couple of teenagers in the back of a movie theatre.  It was a definite moment of passion and connection…  And it ended up with a gorgeous cumshot all over my breasts.  What on earth could possibly be better?

Have you experienced this vascular miracle?  It’s quite a sight to behold and a pleasure to hold.  The trailer shows a little bit of the excitement and enthusiasm channeled through this extra hardness, but the full video shows the fruition of this turgid time.  I hope you have as much fun with it as we did and that you wind up as hard (or wet) as he was!

Give and Take

Camille Crimson gives a blowjob in turquoise lingerie

Everything is a little give and take, and this certainly includes blowjobs.  I love the way the dynamics constantly shift and evolve between Mike and I.  It’s not really a control issue…  It’s more that we take turns being passive and active.  You can give a blowjob, you can get a blowjob, but you can also be receptive to a penis or giving with a penis.  It’s so interesting how there are so many options.

Sometimes we work together, both active, meeting in the centre over and over.  It’s a quick connection, established and returned to continuously as we get closer and closer to that beautiful moment of orgasm.  Sometimes I take the lead, kneeling upwards to bring him to the edge.  Other times, he thrusts into my mouth, holding my head gently and keeping perfect balance.  What could be better than this beautiful exchange and back and forth?  The best sex is always the kind where everyone is involved, we take turns and then we work together.

I hope this rings true to you, and I hope that you all have this kind of experience with someone who is as invested and interested as you are in the experience as well as the end result.  You can get a sense of it in the trailer, but the action fully unfurls in the full video.  Let me know what you think of this idea of give and take.  I’d love to get a big talk going about it.