This piece from Good Men Project really piqued my attention, so I figured I’d share and see if you felt the same way. The idea is that, while a lot of relationships end up lacking in sexual passion, it’s not exclusively the fault of the person who is seen as holding back or withholding sex.
In fact, it’s not just about relationships, really. It’s just a shift of consciousness where the sexuality is in our hands, regardless of anyone else. Steve Horsmon (the author) said it best:
The sexual epiphany I am talking about is the point in a man’s life when thinking, wondering, and worrying changes into leading, romancing and enjoying. This epiphany does not just happen with age. It must be earned. It is simple but not easy. If it were easy, every guy would be doing it and would be happy with his sex life.
Regardless of whether it’s a man or a woman having this epiphany, I think it’s pretty important, and even outside of sex. It’s the realization that no one else is responsible for your happiness if you’re not willing to be an active participant too. You create your own magnetism by being genuinely excited about life, about yourself and about your partner. I think it’s a pretty lovely way to live.
What do you think? Do you think this all sounds to simple, or are there nuggets of truth in there? Read the rest of the article and let me know!
I’m lucky. Mike makes me feel really beautiful all the time. He gives lovely compliments and treats me like a queen. I have to say, I’m doing very well in that department between my love and all the lovely people who come to support what we do online. But still, it’s lovely to hear that I have A Perfect Body, (and that I give) A Perfect Blowjob.
This video has a little more than the standard blowjob… (Although, is there any such thing as a standard blowjob around here?) Mike spends a great deal of time exploring my body with his hands, culminating in him fingering me and making me feel amazing. It’s nice to experience that kind of mutual pleasure in a video. It’s something we enjoy a tremendous amount off-camera, as well as many other things, but I often like to really focus on blowjobs in videos. Sometimes it’s good to switch things and let people see a different side of me, though.
Did you like this extra glimpse? I like showing my pleasure from time to time if for no other reason than because it avoids more e-mails asking if I ever get any kind of sexual stimulation, on camera or off. (The answer, clearly, is YES.) You can check a little bit out in the trailer, but the perfection is really captured in the full video.
Do you like my new leopard print lingerie? As soon as I slipped into it for the first time, I had a definite feeling of wildness. I mean, just look at it. Leopard print framed with beautiful black lace to give me perfect cleavage and support… It’s hard not to feel very sexy in it, especially when paired with my untamed red locks. It’s understandable that I felt quite regal… Like Queen Crimson.
This blowjob is particularly intense in a really gorgeous way. I have to say, I’m exceptionally proud of this video… It feels like when it first starts to really warm up and you just want to feel sexy exactly as you are. Not too hot to make you feel listless, but warm enough that I can parade around in my lingerie all day with a nice little breeze coming through the window. It’s effortless comfort and that fosters a feeling of getting back to nature… Which, for me, means a lot of blowjobs.
Do you know what I mean? It’s just this perfect time of year where everyone wants to draw each other with their bodies. It’s animal magnetism. Maybe the leopard print helps a tad… All I can say is that, when I’m in this mood, I feel like the Queen I am. And Mike treats me like it, too. See for yourself in the trailer, and get the complete royal treatment with the full video. So… Do you like the leopard print?
They always say no glove, no love, but I’m not sure if this is what they meant… All I know is that I sure love to use my gloves while giving a beautiful handjob and blowjob combined… Satin Gloves on Your Skin is a perfect way of experiencing silky sensuality with a touch of class.
I like how fancy I can look when I give a blowjob. I love being relaxed and just natural, naked or in a pair of cute panties with my hair pulled back, but sometimes it’s fun to get a little extra dolled up for the fun. I’ve been loving white lingerie even more lately, so this basque felt like it needed even more accentuation, so why not use my beautiful white gloves? Throughout the blowjob, I had a pretty good idea of what I wanted to do… What is more perfect than pearly white cum sitting in the palm of a satin-gloved hand, all ready for me to lap up? Very little, I’d say.
I hope you all enjoy this with a little tease from the trailer and a whole pool of cum in the full video… I hope it fits like a glove! And let me know… Would you like to feel a bit of satin during a beautiful blowjob?
Kind of piggy-backing off of last week’s idea of reimagining the blowjob as a kiss, this week’s video on The Art of Blowjob is all about enjoying the beauty of a nice handjob. It’s called Sweetly Stroking by Soft Light and it’s an ode to the simplicity that can happen with a little creativity and a limber wrist.
One thing that became almost instantly apparent was how often I want to revert back to giving a blowjob. That’s not a bad thing of course… It’s a great thing! Who wouldn’t be thrilled to know that their significant other loves giving them a blowjob so much that it’s almost impossible to resist. But, it was a fun exercise in trying to find and strike a balance between the stroking and sucking so that it would still largely be about how beautiful and sexy a handjob can be.
Sometimes people think of handjobs as a bit too much like solo masturbation, but I think the idea of literally putting the control of your orgasm into someone else’s hands to be quite erotic, don’t you? You can get a little feel (ha!) in the trailer, and experience how hot a handjob can be to the fullest in the full video. I’d love to know if this little experiment brought extra affinity to the simple handjob.
Of course, we all knew this, right? My fellow ginger Conan O’Brien certainly did, and he came out with a much more representative ad for one of my favourite Apple products, which just happens to feature all sorts of porn. It would have been pretty incredible if I made the cut and showed up in his compilation.
That said, the last meld of words kind of made me pause. I know it’s a joke, but I think we know that there’s a lot of porn habits that can be healthy, sexy and fun… And none of those descriptors he chose. That said, it’s late night TV, so I’m not expecting a frank discussion of sexuality or anything! Still, no shame in masturbating. Everyone has the right to unwind and feel good. ;)
How many iPad (or tablet in general) users do we have here? And how many of you use it for exactly what Conan suggested? But, most importantly, if you do… How do you best prop it up for the ideal hands-free watching experience? :P