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Do You Masturbate While In A Relationship?

There’s a great article for May Masturbation Month, I found it on SluttyGirlProblems, make sure you go check it out!

Here’s what inspired me about this article and what I thought I should share with you!

“Why masturbate when he has me?”

I, Piper Blush, have nothing against masturbation. I masturbate really often! I am single, I can in bulge all my masturbation fantasies without having to worry about another persons feelings.

I feel like masturbation is a very personal act. It has nothing to do with sex, but all to do with spending time with yourself. I couldn’t imagine getting all my pleasure form one person, and being forced to wait for that person to have he same urges as me. I need to be in control of some things in my life, like to deciding when I want to have an orgasm.

I feel it’s also important to know how to give yourself orgasms, to know what you like and dislike. That way you can express your need to your partner.

SluttyGirlProblems

SluttyGirlProblems

Why Do People Masturbate instead of Having Sex?

As said in the article on SluttyGirlProblems, “there seems to be an inaccurate belief in some people that we only masturbate because real sex isn’t available to us. Once real sex is available, then masturbation should stop. In fact, they can’t understand why anyone would choose masturbation over relationship sex.

If you masturbate in front of your partner does it mean you are having sex? Let’s say sex means penetration. Masturbation is usually something you do alone and once you have sex you masturbate a little less. I like to keep on masturbating even when I have a partner. I feel it empowering and my sex drive is not affected by it at all. All the contrary, the more I masturbate the more I want sex, I guess that’s why I’m a porn star 😉

SluttyGirlProblems

SluttyGirlProblems

Some Reasons Take SluttyGirlProblems:

    1. It’s quick and easy.
    2. So I can focus on myself, and not have to worry about the partner’s needs.
    3. I can’t sleep.
    4. I’m bored.
    5. I had 5 minutes to spare.
    6. Because I wanted to do it and I like it.
    7. Because she was on her period.
    8. Because my partner didn’t want sex.
    9. Wife just gave birth.
    10. Just want an orgasm, without fuss.
    11. Partner is sick.
    12. So I am satisfied when I’m away.
    13. It’s fun.

My favorites are 3, 4, 10 and 13.

SluttyGirlProblems

SluttyGirlProblems

Piper Blush’s Interview For MoreThenSexToys(Part 1)!

MoreThenSexToys asked me a couple of questions!

Your performances focus on oral sex. How did you arrive at this?

I’ve always been orally focused. I like to eat with my fingers, to have something in my mouth at all times. I love to give fellatio, sometimes I do it while I watch tv, it can last a few episodes :)  I prefer blowjobs over any other sexual act in my private life. I thought I should stay true to myself and do what I like most!

Have you learned anything from your experiences in adult film that has perhaps enhanced your private sex life? If so, can you share those with our customers?

I have already learned a great deal from my short time in porn, by talking to my fans, getting to know them and what makes them like me. It has changed my perspective on blow jobs. I had always done blowjob in full selfishness, for my own pleasure. Making videos on blow jobs made me realise how much men crave them. Now in my personal life, I try to make my partner feel what I feel when he’s in my mouth. Every sexual experience I have on camera is responsible for the person I am now!

The Art of BlowJob (TAOBJ) has won a Feminist Porn award. Do you consider TAOBJ to be feminist? If so how?

I do consider TAOBJ to be a feminist porn site. I give blowjobs because I personally prefer them to anything else. TheArtofBlowjob lets me share my passion! Every time we shoot a video, I get to choose what I want to do. We mainly focus on the woman’s pleasure during fellatio. The man is not made very present, it leaves place for the woman to explore her sexuality. Also, we have develloped TheArtofBlowjob’s Educational Series, it’s a series of short videos that explain many aspects of The Art that is giving a good blowjob. We talk about the attitude and the different techniques that can be used. You could use any of our videos to practice the skills you want to acquire, but the Educational Series has a voiced over description to help guide you. Women can embrace and posses their sexuality by being models or becoming members of TheArtofBlowjob.

In your interview with Dr. Laurie Betito, you talked about the artistry of TAOBJ. How do you maintain the intensity and originality of each performance?

It’s not hard to find inspiration when doing something you love! I think about sex a lot, so I have plenty of ideas in my head. Our videos are usually made of the spree of the moment. It all depends on my mood and the one of my partner. One morning, I can feel like a facial cumshots and the other like edging. By choosing what I want to do today, I’m always passionate about it. That’s why the videos are filled with intensity and originality. Some videos can be less original because they already come with a theme, like on Steak and Blowjob Day. On that day, we just have to do a video where there’s a steak and a blowjob! Those are fun because you know people are waiting for them impatiently.

You have been in the adult film industry for a little more than a year. How has your experience affected your view on sexual wellness and intimacy?

It has affected my views on sexual wellness and intimacy, I’ve seen a whole new side to sex. I feel that to be able to experience sexual wellness or to flourish sexually, you need openness. You have to talk about sex! Where some people don’t need intimacy to obtain sexual wellness. Intimacy does help people not feel ashamed to talk about taboos with their partners. Talking about sex, lets you construct an opinion about your own sexlife. What are you looking for in sex? If you don’t know what’s out there how can you know what you want. I feel that if a sexual act is done with the consent of both parties, it can be fulfilling, whatever that act is.

There is a very sensual appeal to the production of TAOBJ. How do you maintain this?

Sensuality comes from intimacy. We shot the videos in a very private setting, only me and a male model. We set up the cameras and are free to do whatever we feel like. We follow our impulses, it stays true and real. Nothing is controlled by a third party or interrupted by the movements of a crew.

 

There seems to be a more open attitude towards sexuality in general in Canada, especially in the Montreal area. Do you think this is an accurate description as compared to the U.S. for example?

I would say that Canada does think less conservatively towards sex, and many other things, than the U.S. I can only talk of what I know, Quebec does have sexual education in school, where not every state in the States has it. I did have Sexual Education classes throughout my years in school. These classes do guide a population towards acceptance and openness. They are based on scientific facts about the human body, but also on statistics about genders, homosexuality, etc. They help you understand the world in which you live in.

I notice that in The Art of Blow Job, the female performers convey a passion or desire for their partners through eye contact and enthusiasm. Do you find that women in general underestimate the effectiveness of this in enjoying these experiences?

I do feel women don’t realize how their attitude towards the blowjob affects their partner. Eye contact is very important, it helps you connect with your partner without having to talk. You can communicate with your eyes and it’s very intimate. Exchanging a glance, lets you know how the other person feels. Most men I’ve encountered, tell me it’s eye contact and a passionate attitude that makes the difference between an average blowjob and a mind-blowing blowjob. You should always think of your own enjoyment while giving a blowjob. He will like it if she likes it! Women should not feel shy about peeking up and letting their partner know how much they enjoy their manhood. Men also need to be told that they are beautiful!

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Do’s And Don’t of Online Dating!

Does

Be honest about what you’re looking for!

You can use dating applications as much for sex as to find a soulmate! If you want to surf the waves of life, just write that you are open to whatever. You are on the internet not in real life, you don’t know those people and they don’t know you! So don’t be shy, ask for want you really want. The worst that can happen is that you get a ‘No’, it is better than spending an entire date with a crazy 70 years old cat lover!

Research!

Google your date! Use all you can find, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. That way you get a better idea of who they are. To be on the safe side, choose a dating app that is linked to your social media. If there is not that many pictures on their profil, you will not really know what they look like. Be careful if their account has not been active for over a year, though some people are still not very active on those platforms a year could mean fraud. You can also learn if they are already engaged in a relationship and are only looking for some casual extracurricular activities.

Piper Blush

Piper Blush

Meet in a Public or  Safe Space!

Meeting in public is the safest thing to do. You can always escape or scream for help! You can also take the risky road and invite that special person to your place or go to theirs. If you choose to do so, be sure to tell a friend were you are going to be or with whom, check in with that friend every hour or so just to be on the safe side. Be up-front with your date, if they’re interested in you, they will respect your desire for safety!

 

Don’t

 No limits!

If you hit it off with a person and start having feelings for her,don’t limit yourself. It’s not because you found her on Tinder that it can’t be true love! You can always invent a ‘How You Meet Story’ :)

 

Stalk Just Enough!

There are downsides at stalking your futur date too intensely on the internet. You might get the wrong idea about your date. First, it’s easy to judge when you only have access to party pictures! Second, if ever you spill out the beans on something they did not tell you yet you can look really creepy.

No Guilt about Wanting to be Safe!

If your date gives you a hard time about safety precautions on the first meeting too, let them go. There is plenty profils on the internet!

 

You can read the real article on: SluttyGirlProblems

 

 

 

Pigging Out on Porn, from The Beautiful Kind!

I just thought that the beautiful sex-positive activist Kendra Holliday had taken words out of my mouth, when I read how she described TheArtofBlowjob. I will let you discover her blog The Beautiful Kind and the many treasures hidden within it…

Pigging Out on Porn, By Kendra Holliday 

What is your relationship to porn? Do you use porn to relieve stress, as a diversion, as a partner substitute, or as a cheap date? Do you respect porn stars and acknowledge they are athletic models of sexual prowess, or do you regard them as social pariahs? (If that’s the case, why are they called “stars”??)

Do you surf free sites until you find something you fancy? That’s like digging through fast food dumpsters for freebies.

Or do you subscribe to a porn star’s site in order to view quality porn and support the person who is getting naked and fucking for your entertainment? These sites can even be educational as well as incredibly sexy. A great example is The Art of Blowjob, which promotes beautiful and respectful sex. YES, facials can be done with love!

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I’ve been thinking a lot about porn lately.

I LOVE me some porn. One of my favorite junk food sites is HornBunny – it focuses on incest fantasies. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched this clip of “Daughter Being Talked into Sucking and Fucking Dad.” It’s so wrong and creepy and gets me off every time!

But I’ve noticed porn has been affecting people’s sex lives in negative ways a lot lately – even in MY bedroom!

I enjoy a healthy, happy sex life with my partner, and three times in a row together, he was not able to orgasm. This was unusual for us, so I asked him about it. Naturally, I thought he was losing attraction to me, but he assured me that was not the case. (This is a good example of communicating with your partner – don’t make assumptions and fill in the blanks!)

So he thought about it, and realized that he had taken up a tumblr porn habit as of late – he had it installed on his phone, and would pull it up to view throughout the day during any down or wait time. This messed with his vibe, like snacking on potato chips all day, so that by the time he sat down to dinner, he was no longer hungry.

So he uninstalled it from his phone, and within a week, our sex life was back on track.

I see this happening with a lot of my clients – they don’t have a steady partner, so they use porn as a substitute. They become so dependent on porn, that by the time they get with a real person again, they don’t know how to handle the real person energy – their intimacy psyche is warped and numb.

One of my clients was very porn dependent – he watched it at least an hour a day. When he made a conscious decision to kick the habit, he found himself in a sexual relationship within a month!

I encourage you to think about your relationship with porn – can you enjoy it in a healthy way that benefits you, the porn stars, and the people around you?

Porn is a part of our social fabric. Step back and think about your porn habit – what you watch, and how often, and see if you can’t make adjustments to your routine that will steer you in a more positive direction.

Use the power of porn for GOOD!