Most guys need a few minutes after orgasm to recover before they can go again. Well, maybe not when they are eighteen years old, but past thirty that’s what you could be looking at!
Why do men need some time before they can go again when for women it’s the total opposite. After one orgasm, she can become even more sensitive and have many more of those ‘little deaths.’
After orgasm, it feels weird to receive stimuli in the penis area. This is called the refractory period and its time depends on the person. As you age, this period extends. Some men need hours to recover, others only 5 minutes.
Explain it to me like I’m 5!
The primary hormone responsible for that happy feeling is dopamine. It is believed that having an orgasm is the equivalent of getting a heroin rush. Oxytocin is another hormone that flows in you right about when you ejaculate. This two combined togheter are believed to be causing you this refractory period. Did you know that oxytocin is also known as the bonding hormone? That is what makes you love your progeny and the person you are having sex with the most frequently!
Here’s the one you should be mad at for causing you to have to wait! It’s called prolactin. Without it, you could go again, again and again…
Probably to upper your chances of having sex with different partners. While you need to recover the female can find a new donor. As you have regained your vitality you might also want to get yourself a different partner to spread your genetic material.
You are not alone!
All men have it, do who don’t have a sexual addiction. That is not something you want to be dealing with, so just wait it out and please your girl in new and remarkable ways!