There’s a great article for May Masturbation Month, I found it on SluttyGirlProblems, make sure you go check it out!
Here’s what inspired me about this article and what I thought I should share with you!
“Why masturbate when he has me?”
I, Piper Blush, have nothing against masturbation. I masturbate really often! I am single, I can in bulge all my masturbation fantasies without having to worry about another persons feelings.
I feel like masturbation is a very personal act. It has nothing to do with sex, but all to do with spending time with yourself. I couldn’t imagine getting all my pleasure form one person, and being forced to wait for that person to have he same urges as me. I need to be in control of some things in my life, like to deciding when I want to have an orgasm.
I feel it’s also important to know how to give yourself orgasms, to know what you like and dislike. That way you can express your need to your partner.
Why Do People Masturbate instead of Having Sex?
As said in the article on SluttyGirlProblems, “there seems to be an inaccurate belief in some people that we only masturbate because real sex isn’t available to us. Once real sex is available, then masturbation should stop. In fact, they can’t understand why anyone would choose masturbation over relationship sex.”
If you masturbate in front of your partner does it mean you are having sex? Let’s say sex means penetration. Masturbation is usually something you do alone and once you have sex you masturbate a little less. I like to keep on masturbating even when I have a partner. I feel it empowering and my sex drive is not affected by it at all. All the contrary, the more I masturbate the more I want sex, I guess that’s why I’m a porn star 😉
Some Reasons Take SluttyGirlProblems:
- It’s quick and easy.
- So I can focus on myself, and not have to worry about the partner’s needs.
- I can’t sleep.
- I’m bored.
- I had 5 minutes to spare.
- Because I wanted to do it and I like it.
- Because she was on her period.
- Because my partner didn’t want sex.
- Wife just gave birth.
- Just want an orgasm, without fuss.
- Partner is sick.
- So I am satisfied when I’m away.
- It’s fun.
My favorites are 3, 4, 10 and 13.