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Are You Kinky Enough To Join Kink Academy?

The secret to giving the best blowjob ever is- the attitude. It’s everything! Do it for yourself. It may be called a Blow Job, but it’s not a job. Blowjobs are not meant to be given as a birthday gift, or in exchange for something else. Change your attitude towards them. If you view Bj’s as the source of ultimate pleasure, they will become that for you.

Surf and Turf Blowjob

Surf and Turf Blowjob

Most men I’ve encountered, tell me it’s the eye contact and passion that makes the difference between “ordinary” blowjobs, that will soon be forgotten, and “mind-blowing” blowjobs. This second one will leave a un-erasable imprint on his mind. He might even use it as a comparison for all blowjobs for the rest of his life!

Keep in mind that it isn’t as much about the technique as it is about the attitude. I feel too many women don’t realize how their attitude towards the blowjob affects their partner’s experience. Don’t just enjoy it, need it. You crave his silky smooth engorged shaft, his warmth filling your mouth.

Read the rest of this article on KinkAcademy where much more kinky stuff awaits, Link Here! 

 

A Kinky BlowJob Curriculum!

Kink Academy

A Kinky BlowJob Curriculum

As he pulled the last knot tight she whimpered. Her arms were bound tightly behind her back, and her breasts jutted forward, nipples crinkled hard with her arousal. His hand grasped the front of the ropes at her chest, pulling down, and she sank to her knees. Her pulse quickened as she saw him take a long scarf out of his pocket, and his knowing smile was the last thing she saw as he wrapped it around her eyes. Knot in place, he tilted her head up. “Tell me what you want, my pretty little cockslut.”

She licked her lips. “Oh, I want to suck your cock -“ She gasped as his hand slapped her cheek, the shock bringing tears to her eyes and cunt simultaneously. She could practically hear his glare, and she swallowed, trying again. “Sir, I would like to suck your cock like a good dirty slut. Please, sir, let me taste -“

Again she was cut off, this time by the feeling of his cock sliding between her lips. She opened her mouth, wider, trying to take him in deeper, until the tip was touching the back of her throat. He held it there until she trembled with the need to breathe, and then, just before pulling back, he pushed slightly deeper. Fighting the gag reflex, her tongue stroked the underside of his shaft, reveling in the feeling of how he filled her up, making her dizzy as she struggled to breathe in between strokes.

”Not bad, cockslut,” he murmured. She whimpered again, her ass wiggling with pleasure at his approval. The whimper turned to a moan as he pinched her nipples hard, sending electric sensations directly to her clit. She gasped as he let go, her mouth opening and saliva and pre-cum drizzling out and over the ropes that bound her breasts. She felt his fingers slid along the back of her head, entwining in her hair. “But tonight we see just how deep we can really go…”

The cock filled her mouth again…

Sounds hot, yes? There’s a lot to be said for the kinky blowjob, and that little story is just the kind of thing you’d find in an erotic novel. What you don’t see is that there’s a lot of kink techniques behind the hotness, and there’s a lot of places where it’s worth taking the time to learn the skills before the Big Moment. Otherwise those sexy whimpers can turn into “Ow, motherfucker! That’s annoying!” or worse “Ow – damn, that was my crown!” Bye-bye, blowjob, hello, emergency dentist.

That’s why people come to sites like the Kink Academy to learn the techniques to make fantasies like that one above a reality.

Here’s a quick list of things you can learn to help make your own blowjobs kinkier:

  • Chest Harness: The great thing about these is that there are so many ways to tie them. This link is to a “decorative” harness, which means it will both make the breasts look amazing but also enable the bottom to get their hands free for more creative uses, if that’s what you want.
  • Blindfolds : It’s a cliché but it’s true: want kink? Just add blindfold! But you want to understand how this sensitizes the rest of your scene, as well as the risks involved.
  • Talking Dirty : In porn, everybody seems to know what to say. In reality, having a lover say “Talk dirty to me!” can cause incredible performance anxiety. It’s also important to make sure that your sexy words match your partner’s sex words. Is it a dick or a cock? A pussy or a cunt? Are words like “sir” and “slut” ok? Take the time to figure it out!
  • Face Slapping : This is one that looks so easy on the screen, but that’s because it’s usually faked. Yes, it’s possible to do erotic consensual face slapping safely, but it’s definitely a skill – just telling your partner “slap me!” probably won’t do it.
  • Nipple Sensation : Everybody’s nipples are different. There are a lot of ways to cause just the sensation you want in your partner, even with just your fingers. Want to learn the secrets of nipple play? Ask a dominatrix – they have skills.
  • Hair Pulling : Sound simple, right? And yet…different types of hair require different techniques, or sometimes no techniques at all. The difference is what keeps her saying “ooohhh…” instead of “ow”.
  • Deep Throat & “Sloppy” Blowjobs : Sure, it’s possible – and often fun – to learn these things by trial-and-error. But with a few easy classes or videos you can jump-start your deep throat skills and get just as drooly and messy as you want. There are people who have taken the time to teach these skills – you just have to find them.

Now, we’re not saying you have to come to The Kink Academy to learn these skills – though you could. What we’re saying is this: kinky blowjobs are awesome, even better in reality than they are in porn or erotica. But to get there, you have to spend some time learning the techniques so that your kinky blowjob will be safe, consensual, and most of all…

Hot.

Private Sex Lives Exposed

Camille Crimson stroking a hard cock in sexy lace and nylon stockings

 

I broadcast my sex life pretty thoroughly, and I’m really happy with that decision.  I chose to put it all out there and to make it part of how I make my living.  It’s worked out nicely and I love what I do, but that level of exposure isn’t right for everyone.  At least with the way our society is currently.  That makes me sad.

 

There has been discussion here about this in ways before, but I saw an article on Hazlitt recently (a very long article, but an interesting read) specifically about a Canadian judge whose husband let leak some kinky photos of them in action.  Her sex life was put into the spotlight and her job was called into question.

 

Now, I don’t want to go too deep into specifics, because the piece I linked to covers it admirably and there are certain issues (specifically that the husband shared the pictures/solicited a work-adjacent person for sex specifically linked to race) which make it a bit more complicated than just a woman being outed as sexual, but I did want to talk with you guys a bit about the larger situation.

 

I really don’t know when we’re going to ease up about this.  I don’t really see why we can’t be fully sexual people and also hold office, be teachers, be mothers…  Sex is a perfectly wonderful part of life.  What do you think?  Will we move past this?  Can we have sexually open people who make amateur porn or have kinky experiences and are respected members of their community?  Especially if they are just doing it for themselves?

 

I hope we can talk this out and maybe come up with some ways that we can start the shift.

Brookelynne Briar Launches her Solo Site

Erotic fetish beauty Brookelynne Briar

 

Speaking of awesome things and sexy people coming out of this wonderful city, I’m excited to get to share a brand new solo site by one of my fellow sensual Montreal ladies…  Brookelynne Briar!  You may remember her as one of the incredible women I included on my list of Montreal porn producers to watch for Cult Montreal.

 

She is a real sweetheart and an unbelievable talent.  She’s been on cams and working behind the scenes on Live Cam Network for a few years and she’s using everything she has learned to expand into the world of making her own porn.  There’s lots of solo exploration, but there’s also hardcore sex…  Including a special focus on blowjobs, which she loves just as much as yours truly.

 

On top of being very hot, she’s a very smart cookie too.  In her own words, here’s a bit about how she made her own site:

 

As many of you know this has been a solo project of mine that I have been working non-stop at for over 6 months.  From the website development (yes – all the HTML, CSS, PHP is all handwritten – by yours truly.  Veteran web developers please be gentle :), to the shooting of the video/photo content, to the the editing was all part of this huge, solo project I took on.  Needless to say I am overjoyed to launch it… and nervous as hell.

 

Reminds me a bit of another webmaster/porn maker you may know…  😉

 

She has a dark, kind of fetishistic view with lots of sexy sophisticated influences too.  Her body is lithe and gorgeous and her content looks extremely beautiful!  She explores all kinds of kinks, which are all things she’s just interested in trying to learn more about herself and her sexuality.  I really applaud that!  It’s a really authentic way to experience someone’s sexuality.  And she promises all real orgasms, which is certainly something we need much more of in porn, especially from women.

 

I hope you’ll check out her site and support this great Montreal pornographer sharing her sexuality!  And I’d love to hear what you think of her site…  I’d be happy to pass along any and all feedback!  I think it’s so important to encourage awesome women doing what they’re passionate about…  Especially in porn!

Pornstar Punishment and the Rise of Glam

Working in porn and socializing in the pornographic milieu is always kind of weird.  Especially with social media, you get to know the people who represent themselves or companies pretty well.  Sometimes, that’s harder to reconcile when you don’t 100% agree with everything they do.  There are all sorts of lines drawn based on respect and taste but, even as someone who considers herself to be pretty solidly “on one side”, things get blurry!

 

I got a little blast in my e-mail from XBIZ that Brazzers has ceased operation of a site called Pornstar Punishment…  I must admit, I was relieved for several reasons.  First because it’s an example of the kind of porn I just don’t get.  It’s violent and has a lot of really scary overtones, which isn’t necessarily the worst part.  There are lots of people who are able to take violence and even extreme fantasy and make it very clear that it’s just that – fantasy.  Somehow, this site didn’t seem to achieve that, and a notable male performer (James Deen) even expressed his discomfort at how the shoots unfolded, and that’s saying a lot considering he performs for companies like Kink regularly.  It has less to do with subject and more to do with tone, I suppose.

 

Another reason I felt relieved was because, as I mentioned before, it’s hard but not impossible to differentiate people from certain aspects of what they align themselves with.  For instance, I’ve appeared on ZZInsider and I talk with a lot of Brazzers people on Twitter regularly, as do a lot of the “beautiful porn mafia” people…  That’s because they’re lovely people, genuinely smart and caring.  Because things are not inherently bad, just not structured correctly, because people associated with these things might not specifically believe in them…  It’s hard to ever malign anything outright, so having the things we wish to malign swept away feels like quite a load off the shoulders.

 

Finally, and probably most interestingly, one of the main reasons that Manwin (the company owning the site) has decided to pull the plug on the site is because they’re turning their attention more to glamour porn…  Softer, more artfully shot and more respectful representations.  Although it may still have a mainstream sheen, the fact that this is the way that the mainstream is going says so much.  I feel like I’ve always felt this coming, but it feels good to see it actually coming to fruition.

Sexy Reading of 50 Shades of Grey

 

I can’t deny it anymore…  50 Shades of Grey is a big deal.  I haven’t read it beyond little snarky excerpts posted by people on social media, but it certainly seems to have caught on and I can sort of see why.  For whatever reason, it’s given more traditional and buttoned-up women the “permission” to be sexy.  It’s full of kink, so they’re exploring new grounds and seemingly really enjoying it.  Even though this essentially started off as Twilight fan fiction (actually) it’s still ultimately a good thing, I think.

 

If this is popular, other books in the same vein will become popular, opening the way for other erotica writers from different genres to move forth and make a name for themselves in the more mainstream sector.  Then, who knows?  Maybe we’ll move out of the literary realm and into photography and videos that are more conventionally accepted as a part of sexuality in general.  Maybe we’ll even decide that sex isn’t such a big, scary taboo!

 

So, it took a cheesy book to make this seem possible…  Never underestimate the right introduction at the right time.  That said, we can still poke fun at it, of course, which is why I posted that highly disturbing video.  Hopefully you’ll laugh.

 

I have to ask, though, has anyone here read it or do you know someone who read it?  What do you think of it as a concept?