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How To Get Better Blowjobs From Your Girlfriend!

Get The Best BJ!

BJs are about trust and satisfaction! A blowjob is as much for you as it is for her. You can both enjoy the experience. That’s why if she’s doing something you don’t like, you should find a way to tell her! Okay, saying it out loud is not for everyone. So here’s what you can try first!

Okay, saying it out loud is not for everyone. So here are a few alternatives, you can try first, on what you can do to get better blowjobs from your girlfriend!

 
She’s Too Shy

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As soon as you drop your pants, she becomes shy and doesn’t really know what to do with your cock. Start slowly; you don’t want to scare her off.Add some of your masturbations tricks to the mix. Gently take her hand and place it over yours while you stroke. There are many ways to show her what makes you feel good. Close your eyes and accentuate your moans as she moves the way you like it. That way she will feel less foolish around your cock.

 

Too Much Teeth

bruce finding nemo 2You’re dealing with a shark attack every time she goes down there!?! There is an easy way to get rid of teeth. And it also works, if she is trying to go deeper, then her mouth allows. You know when your cock head hits the back of her throat in an uncomfortable way.

Take control of your cock. Hold your length, placing your hand as close as possible from your pubis. You want your hand to act as a buffer. That way she doesn’t go too far down. That keeps your cock clear of the back of her mouth and her sharp teeth. You can even masturbate. With only your tip available to her, she will licks, kiss and sucks it. You don’t have to worry about your valuable member. As she gains expertise, you can loose a few fingers from your grip, letting her go deeper.

Good For You

There are many ways to keep control over your junk while teaching her what makes you feel good. Don’t be shy trying these tricks. Your girlfriend will gain confidence as she sees you enjoying yourself and soon master the art of the blowjob.

You can always try visual support and learn together with TheArtofBlwojob’s Educational Series. Click Here to watch the 25 videos!

Can You Become A Porn Addict?

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Unlike sex addiction, porn addiction only requires a Wi-Fi connection, no consensual partner needed. Which means it is a lot easier for addicts to get their fix.

Addictions

There are different types of addictions; behavioral addictions and physiological addictions. A drug addict is in the physiological addictions. Your typical porn addict stands in the behavioral addiction category. Behavioral addictions, won’t have physical withdrawal symptoms. But evidence suggests that there is a similarity between the two. Both engage the dopamine reward system in the brain, so stopping is quite difficult because of brain chemistry.

Are You Addicted?

To consume pornography obsessively could be a sign of boredom, stress relief, etc. But if it impacts your sex life with your partner, that is where it can become a problem.

Consequences

Psychology editor Gail Saltz, MD from Health says: “The objectification in pornography creates distance and space with someone you’re intimate with. And partners can never live up to the unrealistic porn model.”

Terry Crews, the Brooklyn Nine-Nine actor, and former NFL player spoke out about his Porn Addiction in a series of videos on Facebook: “For years, my dirty little secret was that I was addicted to pornography, it messed up my life in a lot of ways. It became a thing where I didn’t tell anybody… it was my secret, nobody knew, and that allowed it to grow, and it got bad.”

Beautiful Porn Movement

Beautiful porn is a two-fold concept. It is the idea that porn can be beautiful, both aesthetically and ethically. From an aesthetic perspective, it’s about using tremendous focus and work to get the coveted cinematic and artistic qualities in our videos and photography. We put a great deal of care into lighting, editing, direction and overall finesse of our work. From an ethical perspective, this means using our aesthetic means to accentuate feelings of intimacy and connection, encouraging performers to enjoy themselves and, more importantly, to be themselves. We give room for people to explore their sexuality and create porn that feels real to them. We find it hard to enjoy porn unless we know that everyone is having a good time and feeling cared for, so the treatment of our performers from the introduction to marketing our content is all done with the utmost respect.

You can find the beautiful porn concept in sites such as TheArtofBlowjob.comLustCinema.comFrolicMe.com and many more.

 

 

 

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Inside Piper

Inside Piper

This particular video is very different from what you are used to on TheArtofBlowjob. It focuses entirely on showcasing the beauty of Piper as a sexual being. All so you can get a better sense of how much she loves to expresses herself thru sexual acts. She is driven by a need for sensuality and passion. The video is filmed in a very tight close-up to accentuate the feeling of intimacy and connection that she purely radiates when she creates videos with TheArtofBlowjob.

Get lost Inside Piper!

I start by teasing you by hinting that my nipples are erect under my top. I pull on them slightly, just enough to excite me. I let my fingers run freely under the fabric, while you watch. I caress your thighs with the same naughty fingers. I can tell your cock is getting harder. I just want you in my mouth. I approach my breasts, and I drop my bra. It has the effect I wished for on your nice girth.

How To Have the Best Quickies!

In a relationship, we all want to have the best sex possible. But does it mean it has to be long lasting? Not really! You can have a great sex session that only lasted a couple of minutes. You could also have really bad sex that lasts for hours. We don’t have a lot of time on our hands on week days, so how can we have great sex that does not last too long?

Here is an easy guide I have put together to have the greatest quickies ?

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You need to be really turned-on for a quickie to be satisfying. I suggest you do some smooching. Get those tongue intertwined! Kissing makes you feel more intimate and in the process it arouses you. When you kiss it wakes up your nervous system and endocrine system.

Get You Clothes On!

Don’t waist any time getting your clothes off, just pull those panties aside and open up that zipper! Keeping your clothes makes it feel even more sexy. You need to have each other right here and now.

Kitchen Sex!

Do it in an unconventional spot, for you. It can be in the living room, on the kitchen island… The fear of getting caught will increase your excitement!

Talk to each other during the act. It allows you to stay focus on each other. It can be naughty or nice talk, do what works for you best.

Here you have it, now you can try to realize the perfect quickie!

Piper Blush’s Interview For MoreThenSexToys(Part 1)!

MoreThenSexToys asked me a couple of questions!

Your performances focus on oral sex. How did you arrive at this?

I’ve always been orally focused. I like to eat with my fingers, to have something in my mouth at all times. I love to give fellatio, sometimes I do it while I watch tv, it can last a few episodes :)  I prefer blowjobs over any other sexual act in my private life. I thought I should stay true to myself and do what I like most!

Have you learned anything from your experiences in adult film that has perhaps enhanced your private sex life? If so, can you share those with our customers?

I have already learned a great deal from my short time in porn, by talking to my fans, getting to know them and what makes them like me. It has changed my perspective on blow jobs. I had always done blowjob in full selfishness, for my own pleasure. Making videos on blow jobs made me realise how much men crave them. Now in my personal life, I try to make my partner feel what I feel when he’s in my mouth. Every sexual experience I have on camera is responsible for the person I am now!

The Art of BlowJob (TAOBJ) has won a Feminist Porn award. Do you consider TAOBJ to be feminist? If so how?

I do consider TAOBJ to be a feminist porn site. I give blowjobs because I personally prefer them to anything else. TheArtofBlowjob lets me share my passion! Every time we shoot a video, I get to choose what I want to do. We mainly focus on the woman’s pleasure during fellatio. The man is not made very present, it leaves place for the woman to explore her sexuality. Also, we have develloped TheArtofBlowjob’s Educational Series, it’s a series of short videos that explain many aspects of The Art that is giving a good blowjob. We talk about the attitude and the different techniques that can be used. You could use any of our videos to practice the skills you want to acquire, but the Educational Series has a voiced over description to help guide you. Women can embrace and posses their sexuality by being models or becoming members of TheArtofBlowjob.

In your interview with Dr. Laurie Betito, you talked about the artistry of TAOBJ. How do you maintain the intensity and originality of each performance?

It’s not hard to find inspiration when doing something you love! I think about sex a lot, so I have plenty of ideas in my head. Our videos are usually made of the spree of the moment. It all depends on my mood and the one of my partner. One morning, I can feel like a facial cumshots and the other like edging. By choosing what I want to do today, I’m always passionate about it. That’s why the videos are filled with intensity and originality. Some videos can be less original because they already come with a theme, like on Steak and Blowjob Day. On that day, we just have to do a video where there’s a steak and a blowjob! Those are fun because you know people are waiting for them impatiently.

You have been in the adult film industry for a little more than a year. How has your experience affected your view on sexual wellness and intimacy?

It has affected my views on sexual wellness and intimacy, I’ve seen a whole new side to sex. I feel that to be able to experience sexual wellness or to flourish sexually, you need openness. You have to talk about sex! Where some people don’t need intimacy to obtain sexual wellness. Intimacy does help people not feel ashamed to talk about taboos with their partners. Talking about sex, lets you construct an opinion about your own sexlife. What are you looking for in sex? If you don’t know what’s out there how can you know what you want. I feel that if a sexual act is done with the consent of both parties, it can be fulfilling, whatever that act is.

There is a very sensual appeal to the production of TAOBJ. How do you maintain this?

Sensuality comes from intimacy. We shot the videos in a very private setting, only me and a male model. We set up the cameras and are free to do whatever we feel like. We follow our impulses, it stays true and real. Nothing is controlled by a third party or interrupted by the movements of a crew.

 

There seems to be a more open attitude towards sexuality in general in Canada, especially in the Montreal area. Do you think this is an accurate description as compared to the U.S. for example?

I would say that Canada does think less conservatively towards sex, and many other things, than the U.S. I can only talk of what I know, Quebec does have sexual education in school, where not every state in the States has it. I did have Sexual Education classes throughout my years in school. These classes do guide a population towards acceptance and openness. They are based on scientific facts about the human body, but also on statistics about genders, homosexuality, etc. They help you understand the world in which you live in.

I notice that in The Art of Blow Job, the female performers convey a passion or desire for their partners through eye contact and enthusiasm. Do you find that women in general underestimate the effectiveness of this in enjoying these experiences?

I do feel women don’t realize how their attitude towards the blowjob affects their partner. Eye contact is very important, it helps you connect with your partner without having to talk. You can communicate with your eyes and it’s very intimate. Exchanging a glance, lets you know how the other person feels. Most men I’ve encountered, tell me it’s eye contact and a passionate attitude that makes the difference between an average blowjob and a mind-blowing blowjob. You should always think of your own enjoyment while giving a blowjob. He will like it if she likes it! Women should not feel shy about peeking up and letting their partner know how much they enjoy their manhood. Men also need to be told that they are beautiful!

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Why Women Need To Cuddle After Sex!

What makes you love your partner is highly due to the things you do together in the bedroom. Did you know that a woman is more likely to fall in love with you, if you give her orgasms. That is just how the chemicals in her brain work, a woman will secrete more cuddling hormones during orgams than the man. That might just be the reason why women get attached quicker. So you know what to do to conquer her heart!

Here’s what AskMen had to say about men vs women cuddling!

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Why women cuddle

The act of cuddling releases a hormone called oxytocin, sometimes called the “cuddling hormone.” Oxytocin is responsible for provoking what scientists refer to as “pair bonding,” which means it makes the cuddling couple feel closer and more intimate. This helps to create a bond between a man and a woman. In evolutionary terms, a woman wants to create this pair bond in order to get the man to commit to her and their offspring. Even if your woman isn’t trying to marry you and start bearing your babies, she is likely still drawn to create an emotional bond with you and this kind of physical intimacy is a good way to do it.

Cuddling also feels pretty damn good when it’s done right, so another reason women insist on it is that the sensations triggered by a cuddle session can be very pleasurable.

Why men don’t cuddle

It can be exceptionally frustrating that your first instinct post-orgasm is to go right to sleep, while she prefers to get in a good cuddle session first. The reason for this is all about the hormones your brain releases after sex. As a man has an orgasm, a variety of brain chemicals are released including the hormone prolactin. Prolactin has a strong connection to sleep so its presence is probably responsible for a man’s tendency to want to sleep after sex. The release of prolactin also indicates the beginning of the “recovery time” that men have to take before having sex again. Women often don’t require any such time-out after having an orgasm.