Be honest about what you’re looking for!
You can use dating applications as much for sex as to find a soulmate! If you want to surf the waves of life, just write that you are open to whatever. You are on the internet not in real life, you don’t know those people and they don’t know you! So don’t be shy, ask for want you really want. The worst that can happen is that you get a ‘No’, it is better than spending an entire date with a crazy 70 years old cat lover!
Google your date! Use all you can find, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. That way you get a better idea of who they are. To be on the safe side, choose a dating app that is linked to your social media. If there is not that many pictures on their profil, you will not really know what they look like. Be careful if their account has not been active for over a year, though some people are still not very active on those platforms a year could mean fraud. You can also learn if they are already engaged in a relationship and are only looking for some casual extracurricular activities.
Meet in a Public or Safe Space!
Meeting in public is the safest thing to do. You can always escape or scream for help! You can also take the risky road and invite that special person to your place or go to theirs. If you choose to do so, be sure to tell a friend were you are going to be or with whom, check in with that friend every hour or so just to be on the safe side. Be up-front with your date, if they’re interested in you, they will respect your desire for safety!
If you hit it off with a person and start having feelings for her,don’t limit yourself. It’s not because you found her on Tinder that it can’t be true love! You can always invent a ‘How You Meet Story’
Stalk Just Enough!
There are downsides at stalking your futur date too intensely on the internet. You might get the wrong idea about your date. First, it’s easy to judge when you only have access to party pictures! Second, if ever you spill out the beans on something they did not tell you yet you can look really creepy.
No Guilt about Wanting to be Safe!
If your date gives you a hard time about safety precautions on the first meeting too, let them go. There is plenty profils on the internet!
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