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Blowjob Essentials?

Are these “essentials” really at all essential?  I realize that I’m speaking from a particular viewpoint here, but when I saw this video, I was kind of surprised by everything she’s rattling off here without fundamentally explaining that these are very much frills as opposed to integral parts of a great blowjob.

Granted, she’s clearly marketing these products as part of her business, but this kind of advice has always rubbed me the wrong way because it makes it seem like bells and whistles are the most important part of a sexual encounter.  People who are looking up this kind of video on Youtube are generally seeking advice because they aren’t as confident as they’d like to be, so they’re not going to be in the best position to be skeptical when someone is trying to sell them something.

I’ve had fun with trying different things over the years, including a cock ring (not vibrating with weird little dangly parts) and a warm sip of tea or coffee or a cool glass of water is nice to try every so often, but the main thing that is amazing about a blowjob is the passion, connection and sensuality.  It’s not about tricks and how many things you can use to distract attention away from your mouth… It can be enjoyed just in its similicity.

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try new things and be adventurous, but you don’t need re-branded Pop Rocks or Altoids to do it.

What do you think?  Do any of these tips sound good?  Do you think that this video might give the impression that you need most/all of these things (maybe even at once) to be a real blowjob expert?  See?  This is why I try not to give very specific advice…  Just be creative, know yourself and try to get to know your partner too.

Pleasing Your/My/A Man

Sensual and cuddly blowjob

Reddit is great for a lot of things, but sometimes I have to say that their advice, though well-intentioned, is…  Let’s just say interesting.  Recently there was a thread where someone was asking what the boyfriends of Reddit would like as a random surprise.  They actually came up with a number of options ranging from sweet to…  Again, interesting.

Some of the ideas are nice and simple…  Giving little hugs from behind, little surprise gifts, massages.  That all sounds pretty normal.  Then, washing him, which is a little more out there, but not exceptionally strange.  It turns out a lot of men want food, which is fine, although one guy was extremely particular:

Tacos. Like, I want to have a Saturday where we’re driving to the mall or something, and suddenly she pulls out a whole tray of tacos from under the seat and is all like ‘SUPRISE! TACOS’ and then we would eat tacos.

Ladies: say it with tacos.  But, there was one thing the original poster reminded everyone up front: “Please no one say BJ, i know thats at the top of everyones list.”  And what ended up happening?  Well, they spoke about blowjobs anyways.  Extensively.  So, if you don’t have a place to store tacos in your car, you can always show you care with a blowjob, even though we already know it’s the first thing the very large majority of men would like as a surprise.  ;)

Playboy!

Camille Crimson gives blowjob advice on Playboy

I am pretty excited, because I can finally share the news that I have a piece published on the Playboy website!  That’s right!  I shared my top 5 tips for making yourself irresistible for blowjobs!  I figured that it was more likely a predominantly male audience and that most men like, nay, love blowjobs, so it would be a pretty perfect topic to share as my introduction to Playboy!

This feels like a really huge deal.  I know it’s not all about getting big mainstream acceptance, but it definitely is an important aspect of spreading the message of beautiful porn.  I’m really hoping this will be a stepping stone towards getting into the magazine.  It’s an iconic company and they have a really wide audience of people who like a little titillation along with information…  That sounds right up my alley, doesn’t it?

I hope you’ll all take a moment to read the article, comment on it and share it around.  If enough people respond favourably, hopefully they’ll be excited about featuring me in other ways…  There’s always the dream of being a centrefold.  Who knows?  It could become a reality some day!  Please let me know what you think about all this.  Your encouragement (and input) means so much to me.

That Look in Those Eyes

Camille Crimson gets cum from a beautiful blowjob

I really love this video, and I think it’s in part because you’ll probably see another striking resemblance to Those Eyes, hence the name That Look in Those Eyes.  When Mike holds my hair up while I’m giving him a blowjob, you can really see the intensity between the two of us as this kind of sweet, always new way we play with each other.  It’s a beautiful feeling to always be playful, never quite knowing what’s coming back.  It’s the element of surprise, but in a safe and loving way.

Also, I know that you guys love the white lingerie.  It’s such a sexy look and feel for me, so I was happy to bring it out for this sunny, simple shoot in the music room.  I love being close to my instruments…  It’s nice to sit around in the afterglow and play a little something before getting on in our day.  For me, it’s nice to continue my art in a new way, and for Mike it’s nice to listen to something soft and sweet as he comes down from the intensity of his orgasm.  After a blowjob like that, it was quite a serious one!

I’d love to know what you thought of this video, if you see what I see and what your favourite moments were.  It’s always wonderful to get feedback so we can continue to make sweet, sexy blowjob videos just like you want…  We’re not going to do anything other that what feels right to us, but your words are like little breezes gently pushing us to explore and share different sides of ourselves.  So, watch the trailer to get a sense of it or see the full video and leave your comments…  I’d love to hear from you!

A Beautiful Body, A Beautiful Blowjob

Camille Crimson gives a beautiful blowjob and shows her gorgeous body

I’m lucky.  Mike makes me feel really beautiful all the time.  He gives lovely compliments and treats me like a queen.  I have to say, I’m doing very well in that department between my love and all the lovely people who come to support what we do online.  But still, it’s lovely to hear that I have A Perfect Body, (and that I give) A Perfect Blowjob.

This video has a little more than the standard blowjob… (Although, is there any such thing as a standard blowjob around here?)  Mike spends a great deal of time exploring my body with his hands, culminating in him fingering me and making me feel amazing.  It’s nice to experience that kind of mutual pleasure in a video.  It’s something we enjoy a tremendous amount off-camera, as well as many other things, but I often like to really focus on blowjobs in videos.  Sometimes it’s good to switch things and let people see a different side of me, though.

Did you like this extra glimpse?  I like showing my pleasure from time to time if for no other reason than because it avoids more e-mails asking if I ever get any kind of sexual stimulation, on camera or off.  (The answer, clearly, is YES.)  You can check a little bit out in the trailer, but the perfection is really captured in the full video.

What Do You Focus on in Porn?

Redhead Camille Crimson gives a gorgeous sucking blowjob

This is something that has always been quite interesting to me…  What do you focus on when you watch porn?  I think, partly because I’m making blowjob videos, this is of particular interest to me…  Is it about the penis/mouth action or the face?  Of course, it doesn’t have to be about one or the other, but it is interesting to think about what draws your attention first or the longest…

Apparently, for men, faces draw their attention first, then they spend some time looking at genitals and back to faces, according to this one study.  Women seem to be more open with what they focus on, which differs depending on whether or not they’re on birth control…  I guess hormones play a role in that, supposedly.  But they mean to say that women have a larger variety of things that can potentially turn them on, whereas men look specifically to faces/genitals as sources of arousal.

Do you think this says anything about why we watch what we watch?  Maybe there is some truth to the idea that women would want overall higher quality porn, as their focus could be drawn to any number of things…  Maybe that’s why there’s a backlash against porn that looks too fake, as it might draw attention away from a naturally beautiful face that would capture a man’s attention in the first place.

What do you think?  You can check out a post about this study and let me know if you find this to be true, and then what this might actually say about what people could want from porn.