Apparently women don’t want a lot of things (well, namely, types of people) in their vaginas, at least according to this ad.  It’s a funny, tongue-in-cheek way of addressing the issue of condoms with too many irritants in their lubrication and spermicide, and I think it’s a pretty entertaining way to include the message.  I love when you can sneak in pertinent information along with humour or sexuality or even cute cats…  You know me!

That said, I think it’s too bad if women actually have these types of limitations.  I can definitely see the validity in some of them (the guys who come up and grind on you without your permission, whoever this Brad guy is…) but I think that keeping an open mind (and vagina?) is a good thing, because you never know when you’ll find the magician of your dreams!  And, of course, the same thing goes for men!  You may find that the person you end up with isn’t the one you’d expect, so there’s no point building up walls if you’re only going to have to take them back down.

I hope this made you laugh, but I’d also love to know if you have any of these dealbreakers, or (sadder) if you’ve ever had any dealbreakers applied to you!  I’ve got my listening hat on, so I’m all ears!

Here in Montreal, we have the metro.  I don’t take it incredibly often, since I love walking and we have a car (and motorcycles) but every once in a while it’s just nice to get a change of scenery.  I can’t say I’ve ever thought about it as being very sexy, but now my mind has been changed with this beautiful video by Marie Schuller, featuring Anita De Bauch.  I’m always a fan of a sexy Vimeo video, and this one is no exception.

Just watching her beautiful body (occasionally clad in Vivienne Westwood) is enough to make me swoon a little, and the music and cinematography only amplifies this erotic feeling.  She has a fairly modelesque body, which may not be for everyone, but it’s a body that occurs in nature just like anything else.  She’s very graceful and in charge, and I like that.

I think I would be a little more demure and cute, though that would also have its place in this kind of erotica.  It almost makes me want to try, but I’d be pretty scared to get caught.  Nothing quite like being lead away in handcuffs for public indecency or exposure on the metro…  Not that I’d know or anything.

Have you every had any rowdy encounters on public transportation?  Or even some gentle flirtation or glances?

Thanks to Violet Blue for sharing this!

I hope you’re ready to laugh, because this one’s a doozy…  Only it’s not funny and cute like a cat video, or funny and sexy like a blowjob parody song.  No, this is funny and sad like “People actually thought this was a good idea?”…  It’s called Harmless, and it is an earnest attempt at “edutaining” the masses using my beloved horror genre to display the awfulness of porn.

Apparently having a box full of porn will cause overdone demonic child-women with long black hair to descend upon your family.  Violet and Rye very clearly explained the hilarity of a box of porn being the porn method of choice in this film…  Apparently it’s still 1996.  I’ll have to go get my frosted nail polish!

While the attempt at horror in the trailer is just silly, the real scariness comes from the fact that this is a real attempt at denigrating porn and their Kickstarter was fully funded by like-minded people.  While the content itself isn’t going to convince anyone, the message clearly has.  I hope that more people vocally share their support of porn as a valuable (and not demon-summoning) tool for sexual self-discovery and for developing deeper connection in relationships.  People need to think critically, and this is doing just the opposite.

So, what do you think?  About the trailer, and about this issue in its entirety.  Is porn harmless?  Is the movie harmless?  Is the movement behind the movie harmless?  I always love sparking a good debate here…  Or maybe we’ll all end up on the exact same side.  ;)

Beauty in pink…  That’s the way I like to be, and it’s certainly the way I am in this video.  This is a sweet ode to the passion between us, coupled with a cute little pair of hot pink panties to draw a little attention.  But, beyond that, it also starts with a really beautiful titjob…  I love giving them, largely for the reaction they invariably get.

There’s something extremely hot about using my breasts to get his cock incredibly hard, so I can start right in with deep throating as soon as I decide it’s blowjob time.  (I quite frequently decide it’s blowjob time, for what it’s worth.)  Beyond anything else, this video ends with the loudest orgasm I think Mike has ever had.  You’ll hear for yourself.  We were both giggling about how amazingly forceful it was.  The cumshot certainly matched the volume, and I sucked it all back and asked for more.  ;)

Surely you want to see it all, so you can get a little taste in the trailer, then see (and hear!) it all in the full video.  I’d love to hear what you think of his mighty lion-like orgasmic roar…  We certainly found it pretty entertaining!

This is a slightly older video (well, two months old) that I’ve had on the backburner for a while, and I figured I’d discuss it today because I’m just in that kind of mood…  It’s a video that Sasha Grey did for Equal Pay day, which is, on the surface, a very good idea.  It’s based on the idea that women often make significantly less than men doing the same work.  People have different rationalizations for why this is the case, but the fact of the matter is that this continues to be an issue, both in North America and throughout the world.  In a way, it’s a very good thing that Sasha lent her voice to this issue, but watch the full video and I think you’ll get quite a different picture by the end.  No, go ahead.  I can wait.  ;)

Done?  What did you think about the message at the end?  It seemed to pretty much devalue everything that Sasha has done with her porn career, doesn’t it?  ”Porn is about the only way to make more than a man. Find a better alternative on equalpayday.be.”  Wow.  Now, I realize that there’s more than one way to read this statement, and they may in fact have been referring to the fact that there is a better general alternative to the current pay scale issues, but come on.  They are clearly thriving on this ambiguous statement, especially considering the stark tone of the film and her voice, and her own decision to leave the porn industry.

Say what you will about Sasha’s career, but she seems to have done everything in her own way with her own interests in mind.  She even indicates this in the video…  So why the need to create some sort of pornographic martyr character in the name of sparking discussion?  Well, I guess because it sparks discussion…  In the name of discussion, what do you think about this issue in general, and what do you think about the fact that it’s framed around the (perceived negative) porn industry?

Gorgeous digital painting by Dariusz Zapala

I love to tease!  This is fairly common knowledge.  I love the moments of anticipation leading up to something exciting and new.  That’s so much of The Art of Blowjob…  It’s really all about the art of the tease.  So, that’s what I’m going to do today with you guys…  There is something on the horizon…  Perhaps closer than you think.  It’s slow moving, but I think you’ll agree that taking it slow is part of what makes something extra sensuous…

That said, the tease is all about the big reveal, the thrilling conclusion, the experience of the pleasure of release.  And that will be coming.  In the next week (perhaps sooner!) I’ll be sharing some news about something.  I’m very passionate about it, I think it has a lot of potential and it’s something I’ve been conceptualizing for a while now.  I hope you’ll all love it as much as I am loving it, and we’ll find out pretty soon…

Any guesses?

I’ve got cats and they love the limelight, so they have wandered into several videos over the years.  I guess they can’t handle anyone getting attention but them, or so it would seem.  Maybe they just like ruining the shot.  Cats like to be difficult, but they’re so cute.  You can’t help but love them.

I know there have been a lot of “cat spotters” who got a kick out of seeing a tail or an ear wander into the frame, but now there’s an entire blog devoted to it, which I think is absolutely hilarious.  It’s a Tumblr called Indifferent Cats in Amateur Porn.  I’d have to say that I’m pretty sure that indifferent beats curious in this case.  That would be pretty uncomfortable.

The site is still pretty much in its infancy, so there are only a few videos and photos up, but they’ve already been featured on Fleshbot…  I’m sure that the internet’s passion for all things pornographic or cat-related will fill the gap, and soon everyone will be talking about it.  Then you can say that you saw it here first…  I just want to be at the vanguard for once!  :P

Have you ever done any cat spotting in my videos?  Did it ruin your…  Concentration, or did you laugh?

I’ve been feeling very lucky lately.  I mean, I always feel quite lucky, but especially lucky.  I recently hit two rather big social media milestones.  First, I just reach 10 000 followers on Twitter.  Twitter is definitely my dominant mode of communication online, since it’s so adult-friendly and really allows me to reach out to individuals and carry on conversations beyond just spreading my message about beautiful porn.

Then, I also hit 6000 on Tumblr, which is really wonderful too.  Tumblr is another very adult-friendly site and I’ve been able to share teasers and links to my site, along with lots of content by other people which I really love.  It’s been a slow and steady grow for a long time, and it feels amazing to be able to share with so many people.

I’m really passionate about social media, so it feels great to know that people are responding to what I’m doing and want to engage in a meaningful support of beautiful porn.  Sometimes it feels like we’re such a small, specific niche, but then to see all of these people who care about what we do…  It is incredibly encouraging and speaks to the value of beauty, love, respect and sensuality in porn, and in sexuality in general.

Even though Montreal’s weather has been bizarre to say the least this spring, we’ve had some nice days and we’ve started behaving like it’s warmer even if nature doesn’t actually want to cooperate.  One thing I’ve always found kind of sexy is the feeling of cool tiles against my body.  Our kitchen floor is tiled and it was a nice enough day, so we decided to enjoy this simple sensation with a beautiful blowjob for today’s update.

This is a really sweet, smiling video.  It’s very sexy and sensual, of course, but there is a definite cuteness.  I blame those turquoise panties…  They really make the soft lighting come to a very nice focus point.  There’s just something adorable about the two of us on the kitchen floor, being slightly goofy and enjoying such a basic thing…  Just cool tiles on our skin.

Mike had quite an exceptional intense and long orgasm in this video, so you’ll get to watch me swallow and squeeze him for every last drop.  Of course, you’ll only get a little view in the trailer…  All the sweetness, the sexiness and the thrilling conclusion are available only in the full video.  So, what did you think?  Do you know what I mean about the cool tiles?  Or cool sheets/pillows… Those are great too!  ;)

I love interviews.  I used to be really shy about them, but I have grown to a place where I adore getting the opportunity to explain what I do and why I do it.  Even with all the strides we’ve made with The Art of Blowjob, people still have a lot of assumptions about what we do and think that we must be as status quo as most porn is.  Any time I get a chance to clarify our contribution to the adult industry, I jump at it.  Such was the case with this great interview for YNOT.  As always, I’ll share a little snippet:

Why did you decide to create the site?

We love the kind of sex we have and we felt it was absent in porn, specifically in blowjob porn. But aside from our lofty ambitions regarding making beautiful, respectful porn that elevates the blowjob, we also just wanted to do what we love and take advantage of our natural passions. It couldn’t be a more perfect project for our blend of skills.

What is your personal attitude about fellatio? You certainly seem to see it as much more than just down-and-dirty sucking.

I absolutely love it! I think it’s an art and there’s a lot of skill involved, but it’s more than that. You need to be passionate about giving pleasure, which is what makes or breaks a blowjob.

 

Only two questions, but an excellent window into the kind of answers I was once again allowed to delve into.  It makes me happy that, after all this time, people still feel that I have something valuable to say.  I hope you’ll read the rest of the interview, because hopefully you’ll be seeing more of me on YNOT in the future…  :)