Category Archives: Masturbation

Eat her every Sunday!

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Please yourself with our update,  every Sunday on TheArtofCunnilingus!

Go ahead and show your woman what you have learned. You should not wait for her to ask you for oral, it may never happen. Take initiative! The key is to make her feel safe and beautiful. Some women feel shy towards their female parts. Complimenting her, before you go down there, will help her confidence. You can say: ” I want to kiss your pretty pussy, it tastes so good.”

Take it easy, no need to rush, play with her. Tease her clit, play with her hair. You want to make her feel comfortable. You are in control. Touch her entire body with your lips and/or hands.

Ask her what she wants. If she doesn’t know, ask her if she likes what you are presently doing. Try the basics and if your woman has a kink for something, just please her your best!

Here are some basic tips!

Make the circles, big enough, so you touch the clitoris for only one quarter of the circle. The rest of the time you want to be really close, but not on the spot, that is what makes her go crazy! You can try long licks, from the clit to the hole. Sucking on her clitoris makes her feel a different range of sensations, start softly and increase depending on her reaction.

Use what you’ve got!

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The location at which you decide to have sex will change your experience.

Piper gets pretty creative when it comes to using furniture, it helps her get the best orgasms. Never neglect comfort in oral sex. The more comfortable you are, the best the experience and that is for both sides. Try to stay in the same position, because when you have to move, it sometimes kills the mood.

There is always a new way to experience oral sex!

Say your mind!

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If you want it, say it!
While it’s true that your partner cannot read your mind and fulfill all your fantasies down to every detail, as you get to spend more time in the bedroom with them, you’ll both start to know exactly what makes each other tick. That’s why it’s important early on to communicate exactly what gets you off, before the habits set in; if you don’t show and talk about it, your partner won’t know what works and what doesn’t. And especially for guys, don’t stay silent during the act; show her what feels good by moaning at the right times and gently guiding her with your voice.

Masturbation as part of a Blowjob

Piper watches and learns before a blowjob

You can learn a thing or two from masturbation. Stay with me. This week’s educational blow job video series on The Art of Blowjob is all about solo stimulation while someone else watches. There are lots of ways to better understand your partner. You can talk about what you like, you can watch porn or read erotica together and point out your favourite moments, but there is something particular about showing your partner how you masturbate. Not only are you showing them what you like best, but you’re also unveiling another side of yourself.

Even if you’re not very performative during sex, we usually do slightly different things when we’re alone and engaged with ourself. Displaying that additional element creates a heightened desire to learn from you. Show how you do it, then guide their hands with yours, then have them try it on their own. Once they add in the oral element to your favourite techniques, you’ll have that perfect blend of your own style and certain things you can’t do for yourself.

Have you done this before? We hope you’ll take a little inspiration from this video and implement it in your personal life if you haven’t already.

May is Masturbation Month

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Welcome to May! It’s not only the first actually nice month of the year, it’s also Masturbation Month. Doesn’t that just make you want to jerk off into a field of daffodils on a sunny afternoon? No? Just me?

Not that we really need a month to celebrate masturbation because, well, if we aren’t doing it regularly then we’re probably lying to this porn site, you guys. That said, it’s so nice to have some specific consecrated time to remind us that it actually is a special, useful and valuable thing.

So, how do you honour the month? Treat yo’ self! A nice new toy? Some of the really fancy lube? Dare I say… A new subscription to a beautiful porn website? Cough cough! Maybe all three! You can also always treat someone else to something nice. Nothing says you care quite like the gift of solo pleasure… Especially since it can be used together, too!

Self-love is a beautiful thing and we don’t want people to be ashamed. It’s not dirty, it’s healthy to know yourself, know what you like and know how to give it to yourself. So keep on keeping on and just maybe wash your hands after. 😉

Slow, Intimate Moments

Piper gets an amazing cumshot

Our latest video update on Slow Motion Blowjob is about those slow, intimate moments where it’s not about an end result, it’s just about all the interconnected elements that contribute to the sensuality you’re experiencing. Slowly but surely, Piper strokes up and down as his cock gets harder and harder, dripping precum and thrusting involuntarily from all the intensity and electricity in the room. It’s really sexy and fascinating to see her face as she takes in every facet of this erotic exchange, stroking with purpose, but that purpose is the pleasure they’re both experiencing in every moment. As with any situation where the joy is the ride and the orgasm isn’t the only important thing, the cumshot wound up being pretty intense and beautiful as it rained down on her waiting, accepting, enthusiastic face. This is a facial with intent and desire.

Experience a few of these moments now on Slow Motion Blowjob.