Category Archives: Masturbation

Masturbation as part of a Blowjob

Piper watches and learns before a blowjob

You can learn a thing or two from masturbation. Stay with me. This week’s educational blow job video series on The Art of Blowjob is all about solo stimulation while someone else watches. There are lots of ways to better understand your partner. You can talk about what you like, you can watch porn or read erotica together and point out your favourite moments, but there is something particular about showing your partner how you masturbate. Not only are you showing them what you like best, but you’re also unveiling another side of yourself.

Even if you’re not very performative during sex, we usually do slightly different things when we’re alone and engaged with ourself. Displaying that additional element creates a heightened desire to learn from you. Show how you do it, then guide their hands with yours, then have them try it on their own. Once they add in the oral element to your favourite techniques, you’ll have that perfect blend of your own style and certain things you can’t do for yourself.

Have you done this before? We hope you’ll take a little inspiration from this video and implement it in your personal life if you haven’t already.

May is Masturbation Month

Selina wearing only lace panties and a smile

Welcome to May! It’s not only the first actually nice month of the year, it’s also Masturbation Month. Doesn’t that just make you want to jerk off into a field of daffodils on a sunny afternoon? No? Just me?

Not that we really need a month to celebrate masturbation because, well, if we aren’t doing it regularly then we’re probably lying to this porn site, you guys. That said, it’s so nice to have some specific consecrated time to remind us that it actually is a special, useful and valuable thing.

So, how do you honour the month? Treat yo’ self! A nice new toy? Some of the really fancy lube? Dare I say… A new subscription to a beautiful porn website? Cough cough! Maybe all three! You can also always treat someone else to something nice. Nothing says you care quite like the gift of solo pleasure… Especially since it can be used together, too!

Self-love is a beautiful thing and we don’t want people to be ashamed. It’s not dirty, it’s healthy to know yourself, know what you like and know how to give it to yourself. So keep on keeping on and just maybe wash your hands after. 😉

Slow, Intimate Moments

Piper gets an amazing cumshot

Our latest video update on Slow Motion Blowjob is about those slow, intimate moments where it’s not about an end result, it’s just about all the interconnected elements that contribute to the sensuality you’re experiencing. Slowly but surely, Piper strokes up and down as his cock gets harder and harder, dripping precum and thrusting involuntarily from all the intensity and electricity in the room. It’s really sexy and fascinating to see her face as she takes in every facet of this erotic exchange, stroking with purpose, but that purpose is the pleasure they’re both experiencing in every moment. As with any situation where the joy is the ride and the orgasm isn’t the only important thing, the cumshot wound up being pretty intense and beautiful as it rained down on her waiting, accepting, enthusiastic face. This is a facial with intent and desire.

Experience a few of these moments now on Slow Motion Blowjob.

Good Vibrations for Blowjobs

Sensual blowjob with a vibrator in educational series

 

Think that vibrators are just for women? Think again. One of the easiest ways to spice up a blowjob is to add a prop. For this week’s educational series video on The Art of Blowjob, Clara shows off how to use a vibrator to accentuate the sensuality of a blowjob. This includes using the vibrator on different parts of the penis and balls, but also using it on herself to make the experience about mutual physical pleasure instead of just about giving. Seeing your partner experiencing pleasure while you’re enjoying a blowjob is absolutely the best, don’t you think?

Partners in Crime

Sexy redhead getting her breasts fondled

I just had to share a little bit more about this video from my brand new website…  It’s called Partners in Crime and it’s about a different kind of passionate exploration, always done together.  Mike came up behind me to play with my breasts which, as I’ve said many times, is something that really drives me wild with desire.  I countered by playing with his cock, which ended up getting me so worked up that I began to touch myself as well, slipping my hand right into my jeans.

What happened was a beautiful, sticky orgasm for both of us.  He shot an impressive cumshot which narrowly missed the denim and slicked my hand with his orgasm, and I came not long after, just from the way he stimulates me and kisses my neck while my fingers are hard at work inside of me.  Not all sex has to be naked or penetrative…  There are so many ways to be creatively sensual, playfully teasing and still get what you want.  I love having an orgasm this way.  It’s not standard, but it feels amazing.  It’s very much “me” in the way I see my sexuality.

Join the site to see more!  And I’d love to know…  What unconventional sex really turns you on?  Do you practice it, or is it purely imagined?  Do you think that you can have amazing sex without the standard sexual script ever coming into play?

Orgasms for the Brain

Camille Crimson gives blowjob with cumshot

Orgasms feel amazing, that much can be said assuredly, but science also shows that they may actually be very good for the brain, according to Jezebel!  Specifically, there’s a research study which has found that orgasms are tremendously helpful for women when it comes to stimulating the brain by rushing the nutrients and oxygen to it.  Maybe they should be handing out vibrators instead of brain teasers for those who need a boost.

So far it’s mostly been tested with rats, but based on my own experience, I’d say it to be true.  I certainly feel a kind of post-orgasmic mental clarity (after feeling stunned for a minute or two) and I think the ongoing orgasms have kept me sharp and vibrant and, most of all, happy.  Being a giver of orgasms, I could see it as a science of sort, though I much prefer to think of it as an art, of course.

How about you?  Do you feel more clever, focused or in control of your mental faculties after a good orgasm?  Do you feel foggier before one, or maybe just singularly focused on sex?  Do you think that an orgasm a day (or more) could lead to a more engaged, maybe even more intelligent society?