Category Archives: Masturbation

Vibrator Song

Here’s a silly song for a Tuesday afternoon. It’s cute, extremely cheesy and about a vibrator. Who among us hasn’t felt the glowing anticipation of enjoying something sexy for the first time? Maybe not necessarily a vibrator, but perhaps getting excited about going home to watch a new video, try out a new position or even explore a totally new side to your sexual self.

Maybe you don’t quite feel overwhelmed enough to sing like Michelle here does, but I know that there’s nothing quite as lovely as letting your enthusiasm bubble over the moments before you expand your sexual horizons and allow yourself to be pleasured in a whole new way.

What makes you feel this way? What do you do to get this feeling of excitement and novelty in your life from time to time? I hope you all get to experience it soon. For me, I love bringing home lingerie or sometimes even a new toy. It’s so nice to feel the thrill of something like this.

A Beautiful Body, A Beautiful Blowjob

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Camille Crimson gives a beautiful blowjob and shows her gorgeous body

I’m lucky. Mike makes me feel really beautiful all the time. He gives lovely compliments and treats me like a queen. I have to say, I’m doing very well in that department between my love and all the lovely people who come to support what we do online. But still, it’s lovely to hear that I have A Perfect Body, (and that I give) A Perfect Blowjob.

This video has a little more than the standard blowjob… (Although, is there any such thing as a standard blowjob around here?) Mike spends a great deal of time exploring my body with his hands, culminating in him fingering me and making me feel amazing. It’s nice to experience that kind of mutual pleasure in a video. It’s something we enjoy a tremendous amount off-camera, as well as many other things, but I often like to really focus on blowjobs in videos. Sometimes it’s good to switch things and let people see a different side of me, though.

Did you like this extra glimpse? I like showing my pleasure from time to time if for no other reason than because it avoids more e-mails asking if I ever get any kind of sexual stimulation, on camera or off. (The answer, clearly, is YES.) You can check a little bit out in the trailer, but the perfection is really captured in the full video.

Watching Porn Together

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Looking up something sexy online

I always love hearing about people’s porn viewing habits, and I especially find it really charming to hear about how people experience porn as a couple, so I really smiled when I read this article on xoJane (and the commentary) about the logistics of watching porn together… It’s a nice idea, but there are some considerations to be made, as the author points out.

There’s something charming about the idea of being honest with your partner about the kinds of porn you want to watch together, because you really learn more about each other and your desires. It opens up conversations and the possibility for trying something new. Then, of course, there’s also the issues with how you watch your porn (and, more importantly, the importance of not knocking any laptops/iPads off the bed in the process) which is always something to consider. But probably most important of all is how you watch the porn as a couple. Do you focus on the porn? Do you not touch at all at first to build anticipation? Do you play with yourself? Or with each other? Are you going to end up entirely ignoring the porn to have lots of hot sex?

There are no wrong answers, but so many great things to negotiate. You get to see another side of your partner when you watch porn together… Just watching your partner watch and get engrossed is pretty erotic. But don’t stare too intently at them, as it tends to make just about anyone a little self-conscious.

I hope you all get the chance to experiment with these different dynamics. And if The Art of Blowjob or Slow Motion Blowjob ends up making the cut for your mutual viewing pleasure… So much the better. ;)

Penis Moisturizer?

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Camille Crimson kissing a cock during a sensual blowjob

Someone came to me with a question today, specifically wondering if circumcised penises should be moisturized. I had never really thought about this, but it is skin like any other, and it can be a little more prone to drying out without a foreskin, I suppose. So, I went to Google to see what the internet had for me.

Turns out there actually is a specific penis moisturizer. The website includes a stock photo of a penis-shaped cactus. You can’t make this stuff up. There is clearly a market for this. I don’t think you necessarily need this particular product… Any absorbing moisturizer without harsh chemicals should be fine. You could even do a more thorough penis treatment every so often… Maybe something with oils. Though, you’d probably just end up getting turned on, having an orgasm, making a mess and having to wipe it all off. That’s just a guess. :P

That said, there are a few things you should be careful about. For one, moisturizer doesn’t taste great, so maybe wait a bit before getting a blowjob or opt for an unscented lotion. Another reason to wait a while before any kind of sex is that there’s a chance of irritation if you’re having vaginal sex without a condom. AND, if you are using a condom, the moisturizer may impact the integrity of the condom material or make it easier to slip off. Basically, if you’re going to moisturize, I’d suggest doing so well before anything sexy happens with someone else.

It seems like the general wisdom about keeping your penis soft outside of moisturizing is avoiding drying soaps, using lube, drinking enough water… But if you need a little extra help, there’s definitely no harm in pumping out some Jergens. ;)

How about you? Have you ever experienced a dry penis? And if you were to use lotion… Would it invariably end up as masturbation? ;)

Masturbation Month

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Camille Crimson having an orgasm

Did you know that May is masturbation month? Well, if you didn’t, now you do. As someone who works in porn, obviously I’m very pro-masturbation, but it’s interesting to hear about people who have mixed feelings about their own masturbation habits. A lot of people have some degree of shame around the issue, and I hope that they’ll be able to find a way to enjoy themselves on their own terms.

I think that there are differences in the kinds of shames we feel as men and women to a certain extent, but it all comes down to the concern that we’re going to be seen as perverts for enjoying our bodies… Like there’s something gross about doing so. For men, I think it’s somewhat linked to feeling less than for having sex alone instead of with a partner. The term “wanker” in the UK has given wanking quite a bad wrap for men. As for women, it’s seen as something that good girls just don’t do… Women’s sexuality and pleasure is just so misunderstood that way.

The only way we can really combat this is by enjoying ourselves and trying to be unashamed. It’s hard to get over this kind of stigma, but loving yourself, getting to know your body and experiencing pleasure are all such important aspects of your sexual self and life. What do you think? Have you ever been made to feel ashamed about masturbating? Is it something that you enjoy? Do you ever speak openly about it with people in your life?

Sweetly Stroking by Soft Light

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Sweetly Stroking by Soft Light

Kind of piggy-backing off of last week’s idea of reimagining the blowjob as a kiss, this week’s video on The Art of Blowjob is all about enjoying the beauty of a nice handjob. It’s called Sweetly Stroking by Soft Light and it’s an ode to the simplicity that can happen with a little creativity and a limber wrist.

One thing that became almost instantly apparent was how often I want to revert back to giving a blowjob. That’s not a bad thing of course… It’s a great thing! Who wouldn’t be thrilled to know that their significant other loves giving them a blowjob so much that it’s almost impossible to resist. But, it was a fun exercise in trying to find and strike a balance between the stroking and sucking so that it would still largely be about how beautiful and sexy a handjob can be.

Sometimes people think of handjobs as a bit too much like solo masturbation, but I think the idea of literally putting the control of your orgasm into someone else’s hands to be quite erotic, don’t you? You can get a little feel (ha!) in the trailer, and experience how hot a handjob can be to the fullest in the full video. I’d love to know if this little experiment brought extra affinity to the simple handjob.