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Harmless?

14 May

 

I hope you’re ready to laugh, because this one’s a doozy…  Only it’s not funny and cute like a cat video, or funny and sexy like a blowjob parody song.  No, this is funny and sad like “People actually thought this was a good idea?”…  It’s called Harmless, and it is an earnest attempt at “edutaining” the masses using my beloved horror genre to display the awfulness of porn.

 

Apparently having a box full of porn will cause overdone demonic child-women with long black hair to descend upon your family.  Violet and Rye very clearly explained the hilarity of a box of porn being the porn method of choice in this film…  Apparently it’s still 1996.  I’ll have to go get my frosted nail polish!

 

While the attempt at horror in the trailer is just silly, the real scariness comes from the fact that this is a real attempt at denigrating porn and their Kickstarter was fully funded by like-minded people.  While the content itself isn’t going to convince anyone, the message clearly has.  I hope that more people vocally share their support of porn as a valuable (and not demon-summoning) tool for sexual self-discovery and for developing deeper connection in relationships.  People need to think critically, and this is doing just the opposite.

 

So, what do you think?  About the trailer, and about this issue in its entirety.  Is porn harmless?  Is the movie harmless?  Is the movement behind the movie harmless?  I always love sparking a good debate here…  Or maybe we’ll all end up on the exact same side.  ;)

Blowjob with a Twisting Hand Motion

9 Mar

 

When I give blowjobs, I like to really focus on tactics that are going to make them extra-enjoyable.  I know that sounds fairly obvious, but I almost see them as separate skill sets that I piece together when I see them as necessary, if that makes any sense.  Sometimes I a good old fashioned no nonsense blowjob is just what the doctor ordered, but sometimes a helping hand is strongly suggested…  That was definitely the case for my latest video – Blowjob with a Twisting Hand Motion.

 

 

The hand twist is something that I’ve developed through the years because Mike loves it so much, and I’m glad to give it prominence in this video so you can all see how it works up close and personal.  One handed or using both, it adds so much sensation that it brings forth one incredible orgasm in this video, as it often does.

 

 

I’m sure you all want to see exactly how hot this all was, especially since it includes a lot of focus on his balls and begins with our naked bodies pressed up against each other as we fondled and made out, so go see for yourself.  And why not treat yourself to the full version of this incredibly sensual blowjob video?

Sensual Blowjob with a Twist

24 Feb

 

I know you all like my sensual blowjobs the way they are (at least I hope!) but I decided to add a bit of a twist to the most recent blowjob video, aptly called Sensual Blowjob with a Twist.  What’s the twist, you may be asking?  Well, an actual literal twist of the wrist.  See what I did there?  ;)

 

 

This blowjob is as much a handjob as it is a blowjob, possibly even more!  Even though Mike loves my blowjobs, he has always greatly enjoyed a helping hand.  Even though we decided to focus on blowjobs, handjobs definitely make up a big part of our personal sex life, so we love it when we can share a bit more of that side of ourselves.  I’ve always really loved my hands.  The feel elegant, I love to pamper them and give myself manicures, and I love to explore his cock with my hands the same way I love to explore it with my mouth.  The handjob is often really overlooked, but it’s a beautiful act in and of itself and definitely is a wonderful thing to combine with other sex acts as well!  What do you guys think?  Do you enjoy receiving/giving handjobs?

 

 

This video also has one other thing that I’ve been increasingly enjoying to film…  My behind, butt, bum, ass…  Whatever you want to call it.  I’ve had some great feedback, in fact enough to make a girl blush, so I figured I’d include that aspect of myself in more videos and photo sets.  So, I hope you’ll enjoy my hands (and mouth) in action in the trailer, and also (of course) in the full video.

Crumbs of Pure Pleasure

8 Feb

 

The image makes me laugh out loud every time I see it.  There’s something so imposing about that baguette, yet something so hilarious about those crumbs all over that poor lady’s face.  That said, the makeshift bread penis looks like it would be delicious with a pat of butter or maybe dipped in some nice olive oil and balsamic vinegar with some flecks of hot chili peppers stirred in for a little heat.  Whatever the recipe, that’s what comes to mind when I look at this crumbshot.

 

I’m not sure how many of you are familiar about the concept of “tribute” photos, in which a guy masturbates and comes all over a woman’s photograph, but I have seen more than my fair share of them in my time in porn.  Personally, they’re not my cup of tea, but as long as people keep it polite and civil, it’s no real harm…  Unless it’s like a cum-soaked voodoo photo.  :P

 

I hope this little photo made you laugh.  I’ve been battling the server demons (hence the lack of update just yet…  There is one coming!) so this brought a little levity into an otherwise brow furrowing day.

Amazing Erotica by Daisy Danger

7 Feb

 

This beautiful and enigmatic photo is a woman with such an incredible sexual prowess that it blows my mind.  Her name is Daisy Danger.  She’s an incredible writer who focuses on autobiographical erotica.  She has had an incredible sex life, full of passionate highs, heartbreaking lows and even sweetly mundane moments where she explores her sexuality with loving partners.

 

As someone who has a great sex life, but one that has been solid and stable for many many years, it’s amazing to read her array of adventures.  But more than that, her writing is truly superb.  It’s poetic, but also very real.  I wanted to share so much, but one of her most recent stories called out to me.  It is called “I Love it When you Masturbate“:

 

I ask if I can watch and you blush and shyly say yes. You still aren’t used to someone who doesn’t get mad when you touch yourself. You search for porn on the laptop, turn it on and look at me one more time to make sure I’m really not mad. I smile and tell you how beautiful you are, sitting there with your cock in your hand.

You turn your face to watch the screen, but you leave your body in profile for me. Leaning back in your chair, you relax, cupping your balls, the first tentative strokes increase. Images flash on your laptop screen: cocks of all sizes, pink pussies, gaping assholes, boys fucking boys, girls fucking boys with fists and strap-ons. The people in the videos moan and yell, slap and fuck. The sound of your breath quickens, your ancient office chair creaks, the lube on your cock is wet and thick.

I’m hypnotized by your hands. I follow each practiced stroke up and down your shaft. I love the contrast of your strong hands against the smooth pink of your cock. You glance at me to see if I’m still watching from across the room. Sometimes I touch myself too, but I prefer to watch you, losing yourself deeper and deeper in pleasure.

 

There is something so beautiful about this (it’s only an excerpt) and I think I know exactly what it is.  She has caught exactly what I wish for the people who enjoy my porn.  My porn is not a direct line from me to the viewer…  It’s a way to enjoy a side of sexuality and open yourself up to other kinds, either alone or with someone else.  I want it to inspire to try new things, but I also just want you to just facilitate a beautiful moment in and of itself.  Self-love is hot, and if more couples respected this side of themselves and each other, I think people would be a lot happier.

 

Anyways, this is only one tiny example, but she has scores of stories on her website, an amazing podcast featuring her rich and slightly twangy voice and a great selection of Kindle books!  Enjoy, because I know you will.

Making it in Porn

24 Jan

 

Today has been a really refreshing, recharging day to get creative and inspired for lots of great things to come.  I know I say that often, but it really is true.  We’re so lucky in this company to have the combination of creativity and drive that continually pushes us forward.  We’ve come leaps and bounds and we’re only getting started.

 

I recently shared some tips with Porn is my Nirvana all about how to make it in the adult industry.  I’ve included a few of the questions and answers here:

 

How would you advise a woman who wants to have sex in front of the camera and be successful at it?
You need to do it for the right reasons. Someone who is doing it to be famous or make a quick buck can be identified, and people would rather work with someone who is good investment, at least when it comes to more reputable companies. Know your limits, research the going rate for porn performance in your area and don’t go below that. The best thing to do is to find the porn that speaks to you and contact them about modeling. Get some simple shots taken to share. Look into possibly getting an agent. You could also go through cam work as another entrance into the market. Even make up some business cards and go to an adult industry event. There are lots of ways to get attention. When it comes to being successful after that, it’s all about being a self-possessed person.

 

Is it tougher for men to get paid work as a performer?
Absolutely. More men want to do it, there’s a lot of pressure to be of a certain size and to stay hard. If you’re not in LA, you’ll find it hard to find a job, much less any jobs. Unless you genuinely have the passion and drive to put up with a lot of low-paying jobs to make your dreams come true, being a man in porn is not for you. The focus is primarily on women, and male stars are the exception, not the rule. It’s unfortunate, but true. I mean, if you want to be a gay performer, that’s a whole other can of worms, but I don’t know as much about that.

 

I want to start my own adult website but have no idea where to begin… register a domain, and then…?
Get the content, know your brand, set up a payment processor, set up an affiliate program, get samples of your content out there, publicize your site to industry blogs, have a strong social media presence… There’s a lot to it. That’s why it helps to have a company that you’re working with. It’s a lot for just one person.

 

There are more tips on Porn is my Nirvana, so go check.  Has any of this inspired you?  Have any of you ever wanted to make a run at working in the adult industry in some way?