I have a new update! But first, here are two things I’d like to get out of the way right now:
Yes, I love facials. I realize that not everyone in the world (even people who love cumshots in general, and even people who frequent this blog) will love facials, but I do and I want to continue to make that clear. I will say it loud and proud and proclaim it in this video. See? It’s a video made explicitly to share my love of facials. I lick it all up, too. No point in anything going to waste, you know. ;)
The other thing is that Mike holds up my hair and sometimes holds my head in this video. Sometimes people seem put off by this, saying it seems like traditional porn or something like that… I don’t know what to tell you. It’s something we like, it’s a different way of enjoying a blowjob and it gives us more dynamics to play around with. It feels good to me and it feels good to him too! Besides… My hair is long and pretty voluminous, too. It’s nice to have it out of the way. :)
So I do really sincerely hope that you all enjoy I Just Love Facials, because of OR in spite of my two quick points. It also features Mike masturbating me and it’s a beautiful simple nude video shot with a lot of love AND natural light. The trailer is a tease (in a good way!) but the full video is a whole face full of excitement… And cum.
Are these “essentials” really at all essential? I realize that I’m speaking from a particular viewpoint here, but when I saw this video, I was kind of surprised by everything she’s rattling off here without fundamentally explaining that these are very much frills as opposed to integral parts of a great blowjob.
Granted, she’s clearly marketing these products as part of her business, but this kind of advice has always rubbed me the wrong way because it makes it seem like bells and whistles are the most important part of a sexual encounter. People who are looking up this kind of video on Youtube are generally seeking advice because they aren’t as confident as they’d like to be, so they’re not going to be in the best position to be skeptical when someone is trying to sell them something.
I’ve had fun with trying different things over the years, including a cock ring (not vibrating with weird little dangly parts) and a warm sip of tea or coffee or a cool glass of water is nice to try every so often, but the main thing that is amazing about a blowjob is the passion, connection and sensuality. It’s not about tricks and how many things you can use to distract attention away from your mouth… It can be enjoyed just in its similicity.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try new things and be adventurous, but you don’t need re-branded Pop Rocks or Altoids to do it.
What do you think? Do any of these tips sound good? Do you think that this video might give the impression that you need most/all of these things (maybe even at once) to be a real blowjob expert? See? This is why I try not to give very specific advice… Just be creative, know yourself and try to get to know your partner too.
Reddit is great for a lot of things, but sometimes I have to say that their advice, though well-intentioned, is… Let’s just say interesting. Recently there was a thread where someone was asking what the boyfriends of Reddit would like as a random surprise. They actually came up with a number of options ranging from sweet to… Again, interesting.
Some of the ideas are nice and simple… Giving little hugs from behind, little surprise gifts, massages. That all sounds pretty normal. Then, washing him, which is a little more out there, but not exceptionally strange. It turns out a lot of men want food, which is fine, although one guy was extremely particular:
Tacos. Like, I want to have a Saturday where we’re driving to the mall or something, and suddenly she pulls out a whole tray of tacos from under the seat and is all like ‘SUPRISE! TACOS’ and then we would eat tacos.
Ladies: say it with tacos. But, there was one thing the original poster reminded everyone up front: “Please no one say BJ, i know thats at the top of everyones list.” And what ended up happening? Well, they spoke about blowjobs anyways. Extensively. So, if you don’t have a place to store tacos in your car, you can always show you care with a blowjob, even though we already know it’s the first thing the very large majority of men would like as a surprise. ;)
I am pretty excited, because I can finally share the news that I have a piece published on the Playboy website! That’s right! I shared my top 5 tips for making yourself irresistible for blowjobs! I figured that it was more likely a predominantly male audience and that most men like, nay, love blowjobs, so it would be a pretty perfect topic to share as my introduction to Playboy!
This feels like a really huge deal. I know it’s not all about getting big mainstream acceptance, but it definitely is an important aspect of spreading the message of beautiful porn. I’m really hoping this will be a stepping stone towards getting into the magazine. It’s an iconic company and they have a really wide audience of people who like a little titillation along with information… That sounds right up my alley, doesn’t it?
I hope you’ll all take a moment to read the article, comment on it and share it around. If enough people respond favourably, hopefully they’ll be excited about featuring me in other ways… There’s always the dream of being a centrefold. Who knows? It could become a reality some day! Please let me know what you think about all this. Your encouragement (and input) means so much to me.
I really love this video, and I think it’s in part because you’ll probably see another striking resemblance to Those Eyes, hence the name That Look in Those Eyes. When Mike holds my hair up while I’m giving him a blowjob, you can really see the intensity between the two of us as this kind of sweet, always new way we play with each other. It’s a beautiful feeling to always be playful, never quite knowing what’s coming back. It’s the element of surprise, but in a safe and loving way.
Also, I know that you guys love the white lingerie. It’s such a sexy look and feel for me, so I was happy to bring it out for this sunny, simple shoot in the music room. I love being close to my instruments… It’s nice to sit around in the afterglow and play a little something before getting on in our day. For me, it’s nice to continue my art in a new way, and for Mike it’s nice to listen to something soft and sweet as he comes down from the intensity of his orgasm. After a blowjob like that, it was quite a serious one!
I’d love to know what you thought of this video, if you see what I see and what your favourite moments were. It’s always wonderful to get feedback so we can continue to make sweet, sexy blowjob videos just like you want… We’re not going to do anything other that what feels right to us, but your words are like little breezes gently pushing us to explore and share different sides of ourselves. So, watch the trailer to get a sense of it or see the full video and leave your comments… I’d love to hear from you!
Here’s a silly song for a Tuesday afternoon. It’s cute, extremely cheesy and about a vibrator. Who among us hasn’t felt the glowing anticipation of enjoying something sexy for the first time? Maybe not necessarily a vibrator, but perhaps getting excited about going home to watch a new video, try out a new position or even explore a totally new side to your sexual self.
Maybe you don’t quite feel overwhelmed enough to sing like Michelle here does, but I know that there’s nothing quite as lovely as letting your enthusiasm bubble over the moments before you expand your sexual horizons and allow yourself to be pleasured in a whole new way.
What makes you feel this way? What do you do to get this feeling of excitement and novelty in your life from time to time? I hope you all get to experience it soon. For me, I love bringing home lingerie or sometimes even a new toy. It’s so nice to feel the thrill of something like this.