Friction can cause irritation, especially if it occurs on a sensitive area of the body. During foreplay, if you rub your crouch against your partner’s, beware shaved pubic hair can be pretty spiky as they grow. Even if every part is well lubricated, it could still irritate your skin.
The same goes for oral sex. The tongue and mouth are usually filled with saliva, but some may swallow a little too much of it. When going down on your partner, keep it nice and slippery. The rule applyes to cunnilingus and blowjob’s. It’s alright to drool a little!
Fingering should always be done when she is very wet. If she is not wet, you can help her by putting your fingers in your mouth, before sliding them on or in her.
You might rather stay focus on the clitoris. Don’t forget, it is very sensitive, heavy fingering without proper lubrification could irritate her sensitive skin. Even if the clitoris is far from the vagina it needs to be drench in wetness to be played with. When wet, each stoke given to the clitoris feels different to her, then when dry. The same goes for your manhood, when you masturbate, you like it wet!
Hand jobs know! The tip of the penis is sensitive but not as much as the frenulum. The frenulum is the fold under the penis connecting it with the prepuce. A circumcised penis also has a frenulum, but no prepuce. If he is uncircumcised, you can bring the skin of the prepuce down until it uncovers the tip. Do it slowly and see how low you can go before hurting him. Do not pull it too low, it will hurt him at some point. When wet the prepuce slides easily onto the tip, stimulating is most sensitive part.
To make your handjob great, you can squeeze his shaft tighter as you go up and release as you go down, he will love this technique.
You can complement it, by making sure the tip is really wet and after a few strokes when your hands reach his tip, you can brush your finger over it. Go back to stroking has if nothing happened, he will definitely notice.