We live in an instant-gratification era! Quick fixes of adrenaline, cheap thrills, everything is fast and leaves you hungry for more. When did the fast french kiss became less erotic than a lingering kisses on the cheek in the old Hollywood Movies? Where has gone the art of teasing?
Okay, I know things have changed, women work nowadays! They don’t have hours to do get ready to go do the groceries. But still, as a woman I miss that time that I never knew, where people were all dressed up for no reason.
I think that Zara Barrie agrees with me, on some points. Read her out:
The t-e-a-s-e. Oh, being in the wonderful throes of the painfully awesome sexual tease is such a rare occurrence these days. Doesn’t it get you hot to just think about it? The “let’s take it oh-so slowly, indulgently draw it out until you’re pulling the hair out of your head, biting your lower lip until it HURTS, begging, swearing, cursing and trembling because you want it so bad” tease.
Isn’t it the palpable heat of pent-up desire that finds us lost in the fantasy of lust and sexual wonder?
If we want to get really down and dirty, let’s dare to get real: Isn’t sex more of a psychological game than a physical game?
Isn’t it all about desiring something so badly but not being able to get it right away?
Isn’t it the mental back and forth, the unattainability that leaves us hopelessly daydreaming about twisted sheets and hot bodies when we’re supposed to be sitting at our desks, working between the hours of nine and five?
As internet rendered us sexually unsatisfied, with it’s too explicit menu of fast satisfactions?
Sexual and Mental Stimulation!
As you know sex never only starts by sex! You need to talk a little before you get down to it. It’s words that give you the best stimuli. To debate, to reveal your secrets, a deep conversation- that’s what creates the spark. Most of us need to connect with a person to have mind blowing sex!
Build up the tension to create a better release!
I’m not talking about abstinence, I’m talking about teasing. Push the limits as long as you can, create a huge sexual tension between the both of you. Make it become an obsession. When the release finally comes, you’ll see yourself much more satisfied Anywhere there is tease, there is tension. And when there is tension, there is release.
Seduction and Satisfaction!
We want to be seduced and tortured a little, we are all humans after all. We can’t be satisfied by something that is too easily given to us. As Zara said: “It’s akin to slowly unwrapping a present. Taking your time to untangle the satin ribbons and delicately unwrap the shiny paper — makes getting your hands on the glorious gift so much better.”
Sex is the ultimate human interaction, it bring us closer and makes us create new life. All humans should be sexually satisfied!!!
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Inspired by Zara Barrie from Elite Daily.