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Why Women Need To Cuddle After Sex!

What makes you love your partner is highly due to the things you do together in the bedroom. Did you know that a woman is more likely to fall in love with you, if you give her orgasms. That is just how the chemicals in her brain work, a woman will secrete more cuddling hormones during orgams than the man. That might just be the reason why women get attached quicker. So you know what to do to conquer her heart!

Here’s what AskMen had to say about men vs women cuddling!

Why women cuddle

The act of cuddling releases a hormone called oxytocin, sometimes called the “cuddling hormone.” Oxytocin is responsible for provoking what scientists refer to as “pair bonding,” which means it makes the cuddling couple feel closer and more intimate. This helps to create a bond between a man and a woman. In evolutionary terms, a woman wants to create this pair bond in order to get the man to commit to her and their offspring. Even if your woman isn’t trying to marry you and start bearing your babies, she is likely still drawn to create an emotional bond with you and this kind of physical intimacy is a good way to do it.

Cuddling also feels pretty damn good when it’s done right, so another reason women insist on it is that the sensations triggered by a cuddle session can be very pleasurable.

Why men don’t cuddle

It can be exceptionally frustrating that your first instinct post-orgasm is to go right to sleep, while she prefers to get in a good cuddle session first. The reason for this is all about the hormones your brain releases after sex. As a man has an orgasm, a variety of brain chemicals are released including the hormone prolactin. Prolactin has a strong connection to sleep so its presence is probably responsible for a man’s tendency to want to sleep after sex. The release of prolactin also indicates the beginning of the “recovery time” that men have to take before having sex again. Women often don’t require any such time-out after having an orgasm.

Clitoris – Exclusively For Pleasure!


Did you know that the clitoris’ only function is to providing its owner with sexual pleasure and its the only organ in either sex with pleasure as its sole function. It has nothing to do with getting pregnant, with menstruation, or with urination.

When a woman becomes sexually aroused, both the glans and the shaft fill with blood and increase in size. The glans can double in diameter. There is no evidence that a larger clitoris means more intense sexual arousal.

As erotic stimulation continues and orgasm approaches, the clitoris becomes less visible as it is covered by the swelling of tissues of the clitoral hood. This swelling is designed to protect the clitoris from direct contact, which, for some women, can be more irritating than pleasurable. It moves out again when the stimulation stops.

After orgasm the clitoris returns to its normal size within about ten minutes because the orgasm leads to a dispersal of the accumulated blood. If the woman doesn’t have an orgasm, the blood that has flowed into the clitoris as a result of sexual arousal may remain there, keeping the clitoris engorged for a few hours.

A woman’s clitoris can be stimulated through direct or indirect contact. During intercourse the penis does not contact the clitoris directly. The thrusting of the penis in the vagina, regardless of the position used, moves the labia minora, and it is this movement of the lips against the clitoris that usually creates the orgasm.

Direct contact with the clitoris by touching it with a finger, vibrator, or a tongue can cause more discomfort than pleasure for many women. For these women, more general rubbing or licking of the area around the clitoris is likely to feel better. Other women enjoy very intense direct stimulation. There is great variability in sensitivity of the clitoris and each woman. For more info you can go to HowStuffWorks!

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The Perfect Lelo Sex Position For Your Penis Length!

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A recent scientific study has declared that there is a new global average penis size. After measuring 15,000 members around the world, the average size was 5.16 inches (13.12cm) long and had a girth of 4.61 inches (11.66cm) when erect (the flaccid measurements are 3.61 inches/9.16cm and 3.67 inches/9.31cm respectively, lending credence to the ‘grower not a show-er phenomenon).

Now, previous studies have also told us that women tend to care a lot less about penis size than men, but that hasn’t exactly stopped men from asking themselves ‘can I make my penis bigger?’. While it can help some men feel more confident in the bedroom, women can tell you that there are definite advantages and disadvantages to penises on both sides of the average. What then, are the best positions by penis size?

Sex Positions If His Penis Is Smaller Than Average 



Position Difficulty: 3/5 You probably already know that propping up your hips with a pillow allows for deeper penetration than having them flat. This position creates the perfect angle whether performed with him kneeling on the floor, or with you lying on an elevated surface while he stands. Because you help support your body with you arms and abdominal muscles, neither position should be more strenuous than the other, it just depends on the height of your partner and of the surface you choose to try this on. May we recommend thoroughly testing every counter top and table in your house?



Position Difficulty: 1/5 There’s a reason why this position is such a classic. It can be more broadly used to describe any variation of the position that involves partners on their knees while he enters from behind. However, when you are supporting yourself with your hands, or lowered onto your forearms, he’ll be able to enter you much more deeply than anyone with a larger sized penis can, without causing discomfort from too-deep of thrusts. The best part about this position is that whether he is bending you over a low piece of furniture, or leaning forward over your back for a much more intimate position, this fantastic angle is maintained and you’ll be able to stimulate yourself clitorally. Want it to be even more intense? Try an internal couples’ massager like IDA™. It will offer amazing sensations for the both of you, hands-free.

Sex Positions If His Penis Is Bigger Than Average



Position Difficulty: 2/5 Just as raising a woman’s hips allow for deeper penetration, forcing him to enter from above means that the depth of his thrusts will be controlled. Requiring a bit of flexibility on your part, this position can nevertheless be adjusted by whichever surface you choose to try it on. The key is to keep his hips either level or thrusting slightly downward. Depending on his length, he may still need to be conscious of thrusting too deeply for your comfort, but ideally you find a surface that puts him in just the right place.



Position Difficulty: 1/5 Guys who are built a little bit bigger can be a bit intimidating, and that’s why we love the closeness and intimacy of this position. All woman-on-top sex positions naturally allow you to control the depth more than others; however this is also one of the most comfortable ways to have your partner underneath for a slower love-making session. Adjusted to have him sitting against a wall or headboard, it also frees his hands up to stimulate you with your favorite hand-held vibe like SIRI™2 for vibrations that are felt over a wider area, or a pocket-sized vibrator like MIA™2 which offers pin-point sensations.


Truly, it’s not the size that counts; it’s really how you use it. No partner, male or female, is built exactly the same, and half the fun of having sex is discovering all the best ways to go about it.

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