Part 2 of Piper Blush’s Interview with MoreThenSexToys!
We are fans of a newly published work on blow jobs by Vancouver’s own Teesha Morgan (See our Heads Up Collection). Do you have any advice for women or men when it comes to performing blow jobs.
Oral sex is a very intimate act, it takes as much confidence to receive it than to give it. You let them see you so closely and in charge of your pleasure. To perform a blowjob, women need to not doubt themselves, get out of their heads, and just do what feels right. Both the man and woman should feel comfortable. To feel comfortable, you need to not worry about your partner doing things you don’t like. You have to communicate with them the things you like. It can be done before the act, if you already know some of your sweet spots. You can also communicate during, by moans or words. Men should be expressive, if something makes them feel good. Even afterwards if there is a techniques you really enjoyed be sure to tell your partner how great it was, so she remembers.
I have heard that because of their careers, other models encounter issues with simple things like personal banking. What kinds of difficulties or misconceptions do you encounter as a result of your career?
Models are mainly self-employed and I could see why some may have issues with banking. You are in a whole other tax bracket when your are self-employed! Frankly, I don’t have many difficulties with the day to day stuff. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding the life of a porn star. Porn is a lot more than the concept that people attribute to it. Usually depicted by parties, orgies and drugs. There are so many different type of people that work in the industry, I being one of them. I think the people outside of the industry should not be shy about asking questions instead of creating their own conclusions. I don’t like to be affiliated with other sectors of porn in which I play no role in. If you meet me in the street, you would probably think that I’m just the girl next door.
You seem to enjoy facials. While many people regard this as a form of male dominance or degradation, do you find this to be a higher form of intimacy or connection?
Men in general like to be dominant. It doesn’t mean men don’t respect women. I never felt disrespected while giving a blow job. Men are proud of their manhoods. I feel that a lot of a man’s confidence, if it isn’t all of it, comes from his penis. They like to see themselves ejaculate, to see how much semen there is. The bigger the load, the further it goes, the more manly they feel. To see a women taking care of their manhood gives them a sense of empowerment. To ejaculate on her makes them feel like she belongs to them and them to her. I personally feel a deeper connection with a man when he lets me give him a blow job. For some people facial cumshot are regarded as male dominance and degrading for the woman, but not for me. If they made me feel that way, I would not allow myself to do it. I feel that’s only how men are, they need blow jobs to feel beautiful!
Following up on the issue of dominance, many women regard blowjobs as an expression of dominance over women, do you find instead that women can assume the dominant role instead?
As I said in the previous question,(11) man are dominant. A blow job is a submissive act on the part of the woman even if she enjoys it as much as he does, the main goal is to satisfy the men. It does not mean she has to give away all control over her actions. She chooses to allow a man to penetrate her mouth, as she would any other parts of her body. A woman can most definitely be in control of the blow job. There are many blow job positions in which she will have more mobility, than the standard man up/woman on her knees. She can do it when the man is laying in bed and they can establish that the man is not to touch her during the blow job, giving her total control over him. You have to find what satisfies both your needs!
Are there toys or special techniques which you like to incorporate when you go down on a man? If so, which ones?
It isn’t as much about the technique as the attitude, but I do like to explore with toys and techniques. There is one technique, I like in particular. I take both my hands and tighten them around his well lubricated shaft. I twist in opposite directions while pulling it towards me. It’s the only technique I found that works on all men and makes them go crazy. That way I get to guide his ejaculation to wherever I want it and to see it. I love seeing it burst out of him!
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