Everything is a little give and take, and this certainly includes blowjobs. I love the way the dynamics constantly shift and evolve between Mike and I. It’s not really a control issue… It’s more that we take turns being passive and active. You can give a blowjob, you can get a blowjob, but you can also be receptive to a penis or giving with a penis. It’s so interesting how there are so many options.
Sometimes we work together, both active, meeting in the centre over and over. It’s a quick connection, established and returned to continuously as we get closer and closer to that beautiful moment of orgasm. Sometimes I take the lead, kneeling upwards to bring him to the edge. Other times, he thrusts into my mouth, holding my head gently and keeping perfect balance. What could be better than this beautiful exchange and back and forth? The best sex is always the kind where everyone is involved, we take turns and then we work together.
I hope this rings true to you, and I hope that you all have this kind of experience with someone who is as invested and interested as you are in the experience as well as the end result. You can get a sense of it in the trailer, but the action fully unfurls in the full video. Let me know what you think of this idea of give and take. I’d love to get a big talk going about it.
I know I’ve specifically spoken about how much I love and respect Patrick Stewart before, all for being very sexy, being a brilliant actor, being an amazing part of Star Trek and a really wonderful role model for male feminists everywhere. There’s recently been a story circulating around the internets about yet another time where he was wonderfully sweet and charming and just a kind soul.
Essentially, a young woman came to see him at Comicpalooza and asked a question: “Besides acting, what are you most proud of that you have done in you life (that you are willing to share with us)?”, which was framed around her own experiences with domestic violence and how his work with the issue had helped her to realize that it wasn’t her fault. He answered eloquently, referencing his work with Refuge (a safe house for women) and Combat Stress (his organization to combat PTSD in veterans) – both of which are related to his own past living in a home where his PTSD-afflicted dad abused his mother.
But then he checked in with her, asking if she was alright and offering a hug. So they did. Isn’t that just beautiful? He said: “You never have to go through that again, you’re safe now.” Did your heart just melt too?
I’m sure you can understand why I love this man. Read her account of the events and check out this video, where you see the hug in action. My adoration has only grown.
I know that the vast majority of the readers here aren’t Canadian (but come say hi if you are!) and that sometimes our land may seem strange and foreign to you. I try to explain us here from time to time, especially when it comes to Quebec, but there’s always more to be done! This comic by Kate Beaton of Hark a Vagrant is an excellent example of one of our main traits: politeness.
Not that I think people expect porn people to be crude, but I always pride myself on being a well-mannered member of the adult industry. I like to thank people who say nice things, ask nicely before sharing something that someone else said or suggested and just generally try to be nice. I think many people from all over the world are polite, but sometimes it gets to pathological levels with us Canadians… As you can see in the comic!
The other comics are equally entertaining, and we do love hockey and canoes… But I will say one thing: I don’t think we’re nearly that fond or proud of Bryan Adams. 😛 Hopefully you found these entertaining. Oh, and we pronounce it soh-ry, not saw-ry, as the header explains. It’s just more Canadian that way.
Everyone knows that I’m a big proponent of blowjobs, and I encourage everyone to enjoy them as much as they possibly can but… There’s a time and a place for everything, and I’m pretty sure that’s not in a doctor’s office right after a patient has expressed concern about a medical procedure. I’m not Dr. Crimson, but I’m pretty sure that it’s not great bedside manner to suggest that a patient give two blowjobs a week to relax her gag reflex before receiving a scope down her throat. But apparently this one doctor disagreed.
The worst part is that he’s a colon and rectal surgeon, as you can see on his door in the video… I shudder to think what he’d suggest to someone preparing for a different kind of scope… I mean, it’s kind of funny as a fake story, but is pretty bad that it’s real. Blowjobs are wonderful, but only when discussed appropriately! Besides, the jury is still out on just how much you can train your gag reflex, and starting out with blowjobs isn’t the best strategy anyways!
I rolled my eyes and I hope you did too… This is definitely one for the books.
This video has been making the rounds recently, and I really enjoy it… It is specifically about lesbians reacting to traditional mainstream lesbian porn, but it feels similar to the way a lot of people (especially women) react to most porn. Basically, that it seems made up, that you can tell that certain aspects are fake and that you don’t see a lot of genuine connection. That said, it’s probably significantly worse when people who aren’t even your gender/sexuality are trying to portray your sex lives and are doing such a bad job of it.
It’s funny, of course, but it also made me think… Do you ever have these kinds of reactions to porn, either lesbian or otherwise? Do you think porn would be better off it only told “the truth” of sex and didn’t have much content that was just about performance? Do you think that there are lesbians (or even just women who like having sex with other women) who actually do have the kind of sex that appears in traditional lesbian porn… And do you think that there are people who have sex just like what we see in traditional mainstream heterosexual porn?
I’m inclined to think that maybe yes, but it’s far from the most common way people have sex together… That’s why I do what I do by making beautiful porn. I just want to create more options so that people can see a part of themselves in the porn they watch… I think there is more authentic lesbian porn out there too, whether it’s amateur or more queer. But if the women in this video were watching that, their responses wouldn’t be quite as entertaining, though probably a lot sexier to watch. 😉
I’d love to know what you thought about the video!
I have a new update! But first, here are two things I’d like to get out of the way right now:
Yes, I love facials. I realize that not everyone in the world (even people who love cumshots in general, and even people who frequent this blog) will love facials, but I do and I want to continue to make that clear. I will say it loud and proud and proclaim it in this video. See? It’s a video made explicitly to share my love of facials. I lick it all up, too. No point in anything going to waste, you know. 😉
The other thing is that Mike holds up my hair and sometimes holds my head in this video. Sometimes people seem put off by this, saying it seems like traditional porn or something like that… I don’t know what to tell you. It’s something we like, it’s a different way of enjoying a blowjob and it gives us more dynamics to play around with. It feels good to me and it feels good to him too! Besides… My hair is long and pretty voluminous, too. It’s nice to have it out of the way.
So I do really sincerely hope that you all enjoy I Just Love Facials, because of OR in spite of my two quick points. It also features Mike masturbating me and it’s a beautiful simple nude video shot with a lot of love AND natural light. The trailer is a tease (in a good way!) but the full video is a whole face full of excitement… And cum.