Comments on: Does Porn Help You Know Your Body?

By: Camille

Camille — Fri, 24 Aug 2012 15:58:37 +0000

I’m really sorry to hear that. I hope your wife doesn’t force that on you or make you feel bad about your body. There are all sorts of ways for penises to be amazing and gorgeous and sexy and useful. Have you (either alone or with your wife) ever spoken to someone about this? I hope you can find a way to work it out.

By: add

add — Thu, 23 Aug 2012 21:05:39 +0000

II warc oieb because basically i have o self confidence – my wife likes more well endowed men – i masturbate alot and use it to arouse myself – u grown used to it, its easier to watch it than to seek a partner who get me over my low self esteem and lack of confidence whilst dealing with my perosnal issues about miy body.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:48:31 +0000

That piece from the Huffington Post sounds wonderfully illuminating. More people just need to be clear about what they need to know, but knowing that they need to know things is in itself a form of knowledge… Ugh. Society makes this all far too complicated.

Your feedback is absolutely appreciated and thoroughly applied to my life and ambition, honestly.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:38:31 +0000

You’re very right, JJ. The state of mind that we go in with and the expectations we have definitely informs what we can get out of porn, at least most decently respectful porn. I’m glad that it’s been something to slowly help with that for so many people.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:35:24 +0000

I like that. It’s simple an effective. Everybody needs to have a good time.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:35:02 +0000

Aw, you’re not old. It’s great to get a wider variety of experiences here. It makes conversation so much more rich and developed.

I’m glad to know that the stuff I do is beyond education for you. As much as I think it’s an important facet, it’s certainly not the only reason I share myself and my life online. And your tantric explorations sound really cool!

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:31:10 +0000

It would be ideal if we were all more familiar with our bodies… That’s where honest sex-ed comes in. Sex is scary when we really don’t know what to do, especially when society has told us some not-so-great things about sexuality. I hope that people can find partners who can gentle coax them to open up… That’s a good thing too, in absence of better education and self-exploration.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:20:46 +0000

I’m glad that you were able to fuse learning from different parts of your sexual experience. Having the scientific background to cast a thoughtful eye to porn is really important. It enables us to differentiate reality from patent fantasy.

Hearing that you’ve been able to relax, let go and really enjoy oral sex to orgasm makes me tremendously happy. Tremendously.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:18:59 +0000

I’m so glad that the porn out there in the more intimate range was able to undo some of that initial negativity.

I also think that your point about giving nuanced pleasure to everyone, including yourself, is really important. Just as many people are too selfish in sex, a lot of people are also too selfless too… Everyone needs to have a good time. And imagination is definitely a huge part of that.

By: Camille

Camille — Wed, 15 Aug 2012 17:15:08 +0000

It’s as good to know that personally as it to know that as a pornographer. It’s definitely an important designation to make in your life.