As you all know, I recently became a PornSaint, which is a truly huge honour, both because I got to be immortalized in such a beautiful work and also because of what it means for the recognition and advancement of beautiful porn. I was lucky enough to also be asked to do an interview for their site, so I figured I’d do my usual thing and share a couple of the questions with you here on my blog!
Why do you get naked in front of a camera?
I love being able to show my authentic sexuality, sharing exactly what I’m passionate about and making my vision for the potential for beautiful porn a reality.
Does pornography influences your love sphere?
The videos and photo sets I make with my boyfriend are shot with just the two of us in our own home. We’ve created such a precise way of shooting that we barely focus on anything but our passion. This way, we have sex both on camera and off, but it’s always connected and for us, never really a performance.
Are you in love?
Absolutely. I have been with my love for nearly 17 years now and we’re still as happy as ever. Making porn with him has only served to make our love grow.
Is there something sacred?
I’m not sure if sacred is the right word, but I think that there are beautiful, creative and honest moments that come up in the best of porn… I think that’s tremendously valuable.
There’s more where that came from, so be sure to read the rest of the very beautiful interview, which is quite a departure in tone and style from many of the interviews I’ve done before. I’d love to hear what you think about it… For instance, do you think there’s something that is potentially sacred about porn and sexuality? That question really intrigued me!
Happily, it turns out there are several non-religious definitions for “sacred”. I know this is pedantic semantics, but still:
-”Worthy of reverence or respect”
-”Dedicated or devoted to a single use or a single person”
-”Highly valued and important”
Therefore, without bringing spiritual worship into it, I think there can definitely be sacred aspects of sex, sexuality, and beautiful porn. And what is spirituality, anyway, but the ability to make connections on a higher level? Good sex is all about that.
I like everything about this comment. Everything. You’re such a smart guy, Cal! I think that high level of connection is exactly the pinnacle of sex for me. Truly.
Yes, the love! When you’re in love and doing porn out of love, then this sets you apart, which also means sacred or saint in a larger sense. There’s no passion and no beauty where love is missing. All you need is love, remember that guy?
It’s so true… Love really is the special secret ingredient.
Even when we consider the spiritual context of sacred…”set apart for God”…I believe sex in general and blowjobs specifically are very sacred. I am an observant Christian, my fiancee a not-so-observant Jew, and our sex is more sacred than any I have experienced. Blowjobs involve give and take, trust, surrender, selfishness and selflessness, taking pleasure in your love’s pleasure, sacrifice, honor and passion. When I am on my knees I feel like I am worshiping the moment and eternity, and I don’t feel a bit sacreligous saying so!
That’s so great, Nicoya! I’m glad that you can achieve that kind of beautiful trust and connection together. That is so wonderful… I’m just beaming.