Slow Motion Blowjob is humming along, no pun intended. With new updates every week, there are lots of long, languid and luxurious blowjob videos to be enjoyed. Fleshbot is all aboard the very slow and sensual train to oral pleasure, so they shared a clip from one of my videos and a piece I wrote about the romantic and eye-opening process of getting the website off the ground. Of course, here’s a little excerpt to whet your appetite:
There’s a real leap from thinking something might appeal to a few people and actually making it a reality. Sure, it’s a lot of administrative work, a lot of planning and a lot of nitty gritty technical work, but the dynamic of working with the man I’ve loved for nearly 17 years now (Can you believe it?) adds so much more. We went back through lots of our past slow motion footage, and it was a beautiful trip down memory lane. It may sound funny, but watching these videos brings back very vivid feelings of exactly what we were thinking and how we were connecting in the moment. It was erotic, of course, and certainly lead us to a few new, ahem, moments, but it was also very poignant. The process of selecting videos was about so much more than seeing what merely worked…
What do I mean? What more was it? Well, you’ll have to read the rest of the piece to find out, and then I’d love it if you could zip back here for a little discussion… Do you think you could see how watching a slower, more focused version of what we’ve done could be romantic and could frame the blowjobs in a new light for us? Do you see that for yourself? Of course, you should watch a couple of videos on Slow Motion Blowjob first, just to make sure. Research! :P
Nothing to do with the subject, but that is my new favorite picture of you. VERY erotic and you can see in your eyes how much you love Mike.
I really love it, too. It was only captured with the slow motion camera, so I’m glad we got to isolate it and put it to good use.
It really fits perfectly with what I was trying to share.
Thinking about sex and porn in terms of intimate connections (re: my PornSaints comment), I think that’s what I look for most when I watch filmed intimacy: a connection. If I’m watching “industry professionals,” I usually only feel a connection at their moment of orgasm, when they are most open and uncontrolled. Watching amateurs, I feel connections more often, either because they are partners who actually care for each other, or else because they are more honestly focused on the camera, and so while they may still be “acting,” at least they’re trying to make a link with the audience.
With TAOB, I think we sense the connections every time– between you and Mike, and between you and us. Your passion for each other is tangible, and your passion for our passion is tangible.
But connections are also about speed. It’s just as hard for me to get aroused (physically or emotionally) in 60 seconds as it is if I’m watching a wooden actor. I may not always have the patience to sit through a 30-minute tantric sex marathon video, but I get more turned off by films that edit between 30 seconds of intro, 30 seconds of foreplay, 30 seconds of thrusting, and 5 seconds of facial. There’s no time for connections– or even arousal– when the jump-cuts are that quick.
TAOB videos have always taken their time– your time– our time. Even if they’re not always filmed in full real time, you still always linger over every possible moment of passion. But even so, you’re still filming at Your Speed, so we (the audience) have to keep up (physically and emotionally) with your connections, your passion.
All of that changes with Slow Motion Blowjob. Suddenly, for the first time (for each entire film), we get all the time in the world to experience each moment of connection. We get to see something, and imagine how it feels, and see your reactions, and feel our reactions– and only THEN are we forced to move on to the next image, the next feeling. This is called having our cake and eating it too!
For example, watching a normal speed blowjob, I usually think “mmm, her lips would feel great on my penis.” But watching a slo-mo blojob, such as this interview clip, I see the way your lips actually roll forward and back over his cock, and how your mouth shapes itself around his contours. I see the way your tongue moves forward in desire as he approaches you, and the way you close your eyes when you deepthroat and open them again as you pull away.
So now I’m able to experience your connections, Mike’s connections (even through his purely physical reactions), and my own connections– both to your film and to my own body. Heck, Slow Motion Blowjob actually gives me time to focus on myself! It’s like you’ve built in space for my arousal as well as your own!
Now THAT is romantic.
That truly is romantic! Everything about this post made my heart sing. I appreciate so much that you really get what we’re doing and it makes me so happy that we’re continuing to find the right rhythm and time to make that connection apparent.
Did I say overwhelming? No. So let me say it: OVERWHELMING and OUTSTANDING. This July, we (me and my beloved hubby) mark 25 years since we know each other. After 4 kids and the grinding of life, we’re so very often given moments of understanding how deep, and deeper, our love grows by the day. These moments take us out of time, away from the pressing chores and worries. And each such a wonderful moment has something to do with our physical connection, our love making, the naughty erotic posing I like to do for him. All these moments are sort of slow motion recaps, lovely memories feeding our sensuality as well as our spiritual connection.
At one point in the past, hubby showed me a sample video of you giving a beautiful blowjob to your Mike. It touched me in untold ways — you know that we’re not immediately telling them what we feel, we’d rather prefer to let them guess, to allow them the time to pursue us and ask us and praise us a bit more, and eventually to whisper us back what we feel, what we want to say or wish to hear. This is another slow motion aspect of our romantic lives.
What you taught me, Camille, is that a woman in love has no reason to feel shame or frustration for pleasing her man and making it public if she so desires. We can do this, all of us, by simply giving up some dusted, and socially perverted, prejudices. But taking it to the superlative of fine arts, making the blowjob a classic masterpiece, this is — I guess — something that only you have done.
I’ll show hubby your new site. He will love it, what man wouldn’t?
Everything about what you’ve said is so incredibly amazing. This makes me so happy. Knowing that couples are loving what we do is really wonderful. Thank you so much, Doris.