I was sending out a tweet about an hour ago, talking about how I really love it when Mike comes and sort of grunts and groans. I do. Why? Well, it’s a great auditory cue that he is having such a good time that his body is taking over everything else. In real life, unless you’re a posing manly man or in a football huddle (see how little I know about stereotypical guy stuff?), you’re not going to be doing much grunting and groaning outside of really good sex, or maybe a bad groin injury.
It is pretty amazing, when you think about it. There is something so intense about the pleasure of a really intense orgasm that it absolutely take over and you revert to an animalistic, primitive state. There’s this incredible connection with history, through the past right to the beast in the roots of our DNA. I’m no biologist, but I think that these sounds aren’t just for the person making them. They’re also for the person who gets to hear them. Whenever I hear him come, something stirs inside me and I become so much more aroused, almost frantically as I lap up or play with the cum that comes along with those natural sounds.
Part of it is probably that these orgasmic noises aren’t as prevalent in oral sex. Unless you’re faking it or really a natural moaner, you don’t make too much noise during a blowjob. It’s quiet, so the moment of orgasm always peaks in a way that is really arousing. When having sexual intercourse, there’s a lot more natural noise… More moaning, more grunting, more exertion. Maybe these sounds of pleasure bring me back to the idea of intercourse, which is where my primal beast self lives. Whatever the reason, though, I think this is a non-social/ethical side to why I just love giving pleasure. The sounds, not to mention the tastes, the smells, the sights… It turns something on in me and I just need to experience it again and again.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, The Art of Blowjob isn’t going anywhere! :P
Sometimes I wish I was naturally louder, more of a moaner and groaner during sex [any kind], just so I could give this kind of pleasure to my partners. But alas, I’m the silent type– sure, I’ll breathe hard, and have been known to groan from pleasure once or twice, but usually I’m more of a ninja. My last girlfriend complained about it, so I tried to be louder, but it was too forced and fake and didn’t work for either of us. Oh well. I’m glad Mike is a natural pro at returning your pleasure! I definitely think you’re right about all the biological reasons for noisy orgasms– it proves that giving IS receiving!
I think there’s good for both. I’m not loud when I give a blowjob, and sometimes I feel like I have to be, but I still don’t want to fake. It’s better to be yourself at all cost.
I completely agree with you. There’s just something special about hearing the guy moaning and enjoying himself during a blowjob. It’s like getting an extra reward for doing a great job. And it is more arousing to hear him even if its just a little bit of a noise or the touch of his hands. Know exactly what you’re saying.
Love your pic also! That was one of my favorite videos and you looked amazingly sexy in that dress.
I’m glad you agree with me, JJ! It’s such a fun incentive. And thank you very very much for the sweet compliment!
Nice to hear TAOB will be around for a while.
As Mike sounds turn you on, so does the sounds that women make, when they orgasm, turn men on or maybe just me. I still love the music in the videos you chose, and i love the sounds you make in… ( loving sex and sensual touch, and touch ) when you orgasm. Lost my train of thought, just thinking of those videos.
I agree that since the time we started to walk the earth, grunts, moans, noises, gestures, was the way we communicated, and are still with us. It’s a two way street when it comes to pleasure, communicate.
Oh yes, a long long time. I agree that a nice exchange of pleasure for pleasure, even just sound, is amazing.
Speaking as a guy, I can safely say that the sound of my partner expressing the pleasure I’m making her feel is a major part of the sexual experience for me. Admittedly, part of that is talking dirty (even if it’s just saying “Oh yes, just like that, please don’t stop doing that), but sound and language and all that are just an important part of the sensual experience of sex as touch and sight and taste, etc. In that sense there probably is some biological basis for it in terms of the stimulation that feeds into the whole thing.
Obviously, though, it works best when it happens naturally – when you can’t help but make those noises. That said, some people make more noise than strictly necessary (albeit precisely to excite their partner) – not necessarily like faking orgasms so much as some oohing and aahing, etc. And that’s generally okay too, since it’s the thought that counts. Also, some people are just naturally quiet during sex, and it’s not that they’re not enjoying it, they just don’t vocally express it for whatever reason. Maybe that comes from a biological need to avoid attracting predators in the jungle in the middle of the night or whatever.
That’s perfect! From now on, if a woman asks why I’m so quiet during sex, I will always reply: “I’m avoiding attracting predators, and I’m doing it for you, baby!”
Haha! That’ll get you the best blowjob ever!
I agree. There’s nothing wrong with being naturally quiet. As long as it’s natural and respectful, it’s fine.
It’s also worth adding that there are other non-verbal cues to indicate pleasure, from quickness of breath to body language – like when yr lover’s caresses take on a certain intensity and insistence, that kind of thing. If they’re having a good time, you’ll know. (If you’ve ever had to have clandestine sex with a sleeping roommate nearby or relatives in the next room, you may know what I mean.:) )
Absolutely, John! You are so right! There’s so much more to sex and there are all sorts of beautiful subtle nuances of arousal and desire.
If you read the book Sex At Dawn (which I recommend), they say that the reason humans are so vocal during sex is that it essentially functions as an invitation to the rest of the tribe to join in. You actually see this in bonobos and chimps, our closest cousins in the primate family tree.
Which is why I kind of prefer your compilation videos, Camille. The music and editing are amazing, but something about hearing the raw audio makes the scenes that much more visceral and enjoyable since the two of you are very obviously enjoying each other.
I do need to read that book! I didn’t know that bonobos and chimps wanted freaky orgies!
I think I’ll have to get another compilation on the way.
One of the woman I play with loves the fact that she makes me come so hard. It is such a turn on when she tells me she wants me to cum for her.
That is so awesome! It sounds like you have a great thing going.