This video has been making the rounds on the internet and it really made me smile. It’s meant to be funny, and it is, but it’s also just true! So, true, in fact, that Fleshbot is trying to make a non-parody version of it through e-mails and even videos! I know that a lot of you are men, but there are definitely more than a few women out there who read my blog, and I’d love it if you could pass along your declaration of porn love their way. Whether anonymous or not, it’s adding fuel to the fire that women enjoy their sexualities in as many varied ways as men. This is sexy and fun! And men, if you know any porn loving women, be sure to point them in that direction. Who knows? Maybe it’ll spark a discussion on their favourite porn and lead somewhere sexy for the two of you…
(On a side note, I know my blog schedule has been a little off-kilter this week. I’ve been very busy on the technical/development side, but I wanted to let you know that all is well!)
Gday Guys.I think the biggest problem is the word porn. I think a lot of girls have a pre conceived idea on what the word means. Its with quality such as TAOB that the stigma is slowly being eroded but it will take time.
I think of all the porn sites and movies out there that peddle there product. Girls being used and abused by guys with big dicks.
Its a huge market for more feminine friendly porn.Your team are trail blazers Camille. The future is very bright. xox
OOPS..not all porn sites..sadly the greater majority are sleazy,crass,rude, and fake.Thats why TAOB is a massive fave of mine..its real and beautiful.
Thanks so much, Peter.
I am excited for this future!
I’m a woman who likes porn, both made for men and made for women, though there’s a sad lack of the latter. We need more porn like Camille’s, made by women and celebrating female sexuality, which is enjoyed by both men and women.
You’re so kind. Thanks for your support, Valerie!
That video was great. I think Peter is correct and that once a girl/woman hears the word porn she thinks of something sleazy and some guy just banging some girl. I paid a lot of money to get a DVD of a famous porn star and it was the worst thing I’d ever watch and I really wanted my money back. It was fake and complete acting. When I told my friend she should watch Camille she said “no I’m not into porn” and I told her it’s on a different level than the other porn out there. I said it was gentle and loving blowjobs, not a girl getting gagged by a man. Thanks Camille for giving us something better to watch.
Thank you JJ..very sweet of you to say .
JJ, you are right. So many porn products are just ripoffs. Many guys can get off watching physical images of sex, emotions don’t matter to them. It seems that the large majority of men who produce porn have this attitude.
By contrast, most women like porn that offers a more emotional connection. Woman easily sense when pleasure is being faked. They find hard it very hard to experience real sexual excitement when they know the sex performers are not. In short, so much porn is fake that most women have little desire to watch it. Make porn that is crafted with care and performed with true passions and many more women will say without hesitation: “I like to watch porn.”
Here’s hoping!
Yes, usually it’s easy to tell when sex in porn is being faked. Especially moaning parts. And it doesn’t help for the woman to be looking away and seem bored when she’s supposed to be enjoying what is happening. Mostly, I just like watching Camille porn.
I like that you like what I do so much!
You’re right about the physical connection being important – well, to this woman at least.
The types of clips I’m drawn to are those in Camille’s genre that are usually classified ‘romantic’ or ‘erotic’. TAOB, X-Art or Orgasms for example are very female friendly from my point of view because they tend to show couples making love rather than just using each other. For example, I love the way that, despite the fact that Mike is clearly on the receiving end in most of Camille’s work, he’s always stroking her shoulders or caressing her gently throughout their clips. It’s clear he loves and respects her very much. It may sound soppy but that’s what I find appealing and if I do then chances are other women will too.
Until recently, not a whole lot of porn has been pitched at women and I think that, along with our preconceptions, is what puts us off. So much of that mainstream stuff is about the man’s pleasure and we can tell whether the woman is into it – and when she’s not and he’s not even trying to satisfy her, it just leaves us cold.
I completely agree with you. I’m so glad that things are picking up in the porn world, especially when it comes to women’s feelings and desires.
Aw, you’re so sweet, JJ. It’s my pleasure.
I can totally understand why many sexual uninhibited women avoid internet porn like the plague. Its is one of the last bastions of raw sexism left in the Western world. Big Porn uses most women like human sex dolls, or worse. I have personally watched videos in which women were so horribly abused that I felt like I was witnessing a crime.
And then so much porn is just lame. How many videos feature women with dull eyes and expresses that say: “Hurry up and cum so I can get paid.” As a man, I know my own kind. With very rare exceptions, I think only women can make porn that women will find appealing. Most men just don’t fucking get it and never will.
Women of Porn, I say to you storm the barricades of Big Porn and stake your claim! The Revolution is at hand!
Note to men: If “women friendly” porn becomes more popular and readily accessible, your partners may actually want to watch it with you…and how awesome would that be!
The revolution will come one of these days, if it hasn’t already started…
Outstanding! I’m going to have to share that with my wife so she can pass it on to her girlfriends. Assuming they haven’t already seen it, of course.
Thanks for bringing this video to my attention!
My pleasure!
Don’t forget the word eroticism. I’m a man but I don’t much care for women being treated like slabs of meat. Or porn where to the girls it’s just another day to get paid at the office. Another big turn off for me is tattoo’s, peircings and shaved pussies. It’s so much better when the girl is natural and has a genuine love, affection and enjoyment sometimes expressed by a wicked wry humour in her eyes. And you Camille capture that so well. Yes – Porn can be nasty – but there’s no shame in eroticism.
I’m really glad to hear that my work is evocative of eroticism in that way.
hahahaha
*raises hand* I watch it too!
I am so stealing this post. :p
Thanks girl for doing what you do.
xx
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hi Camille,
I came across you on Jezebel.com ! Could you share tips on how to give a blowjob? I mean once you have your mouth on a guy what could we be doing with our tongues, etc. I like your pics, first I’ve seen where a girl is actually enjoying herself genuinely. I’d like to be a girl like that
I was on Jezebel? I couldn’t find anything about it in my search. I actually wrote a comprehensive how-to guide here: http://shelovessex.com/2010/06/how-to-give-a-blow-job-like-you-love-it/ Hopefully that helps!
I’m a woman and I admit (as a matter of fact I’m not even ashamed of it) to watching porn. I used to like cheap porn too. Now the only porn I’m watching is the one made by you.
You really made me feel O.K. about giving a blow job.
P.s. I’m loving the video.
Aw, you are awesome to say it, Alex! And I’m glad you like blowjobs now!
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