Again with the updates. I updated yesterday night (technically today) and just now, so I’ll probably be blogging twice to talk about both of them, but I’ll start with Cuffs. A while ago, I made a video called The Prisoner and it was a pretty big hit. I’m not the kinkiest person in the world but I do like to put a little extra spice in my play sometimes and that’s where the handcuffs come in.
A lot of the fun of being cuffed comes from how badly you want to use your hands when you can’t. Since I already gravitate towards using my hands a lot in a blowjob, being forced to use only my mouth is so intense and challenging… And I love a challenge. All of the stroking, caressing and fondling goes completely out the window and you have to be creative in finding comparable sensations with your lips, your tongue, your cheeks and your throat.
There’s also the part of me that loves being restrained because it has a little subservient feeling to it. It’s not as if I’m going to up and decide that I’m into S/m, but feeling like someone else is in control and acting out that little fantasy is very hot. Even just doing things like holding my posture or sitting demurely feels like a sexual act because it’s all part of giving the pleasure. I know how hot it must be to see me there, all poised and dedicated to giving him an amazing orgasm.
So, I guess this is a pretty great look into my psyche when I’m somewhat immobilized and doing what I normally do in such an active, involved way. Playing with the dynamics of a blowjob can be so fun, and I find that it really does bring us closer together as a couple to still have so much flexibility and fun in our sex life.
Have you guys ever tried this kind of play? Is there any other slightly kinkier stuff you’d like to see me try during a blowjob?