Hey everyone! Once again, a super busy week. I’m taking a break from packing up boxes of my stuff to post a quick blog featuring some of the amazing things I’ve been up to in my life this week.
First, I have a new vlog with my funny moving clothes, my excitement about the new blog look, my fun shopping plans with Sophie to decorate the new office and questions from Tumblr members Light11 and Velvethammer! Check it out:
I really love giving advice, so please keep asking me questions. And I hope that Ed and Dave get a little minute of butterflies in the stomach over this.
Before we even get into anatomy, it’s important to talk about what turns YOU on about giving a blow job. There are so many different motivations for giving a blow job, whether it’s because you get off on pleasing your partner, you love the sensuality of oral sex, you want to create a consensual degradation scene… All of these are perfectly wonderful reasons to give a blow job, but it’s important to know which of these reasons drive you and then to figure out which ones drive your partner. For example, if you want to be treated like a dirty little slut and he wants to have you gently kiss and caress him with rose petals on the bed, scented candles and smooth jazz playing in the background, there’s going to be some confusion.
Sophie definitely has a particular way of talking and so do I, so it’s really interesting to mix them together along with my technical skills and her knowledge of queer sexuality. I really hope this article helps you give and/or receive better blow jobs, because that’s what we all want, isn’t it?
I’m really excited to share my interview at The Writing Buddha! Take a look:
Q: What’s your take on the porn industry? Have you seen anything that’s impressed you?
The industry is a very mixed bag. There is some pretty awful stuff that is just so formulaic and void of any redeeming aesthetic value, but there are some really amazing people these days who are reclaiming porn and injecting some much needed wit and beauty. People coming to mind are mostly in the queer genre: Madison Young, Courtney Trouble, Shine Louise Houston, Travis Matthews. I’m also a huge fan of John Cameron Mitchell’s Shortbus.
Q: Why blowjobs? Have you thought of doing more? Scratch that… blowjobs rock!
Blowjobs are very sensual. They’ve always been something I’ve really enjoyed and that I’m really good at. Also, they are very dynamic looking on camera because the action is so clear and if you’re good at them and shooting them well, they can be unbelievably erotic. Besides, in terms of making porn, it’s important to do something that other people want, too. Blowjobs are pretty much a universal favorite, but not many sites show them in a loving and beautiful light. We’re very special in that respect.
Q: Not to sound like a Cosmo article, but what are your turn-on’s and turn-off’s?
My boyfriend, of course! I like dark hair and dark eyes and people who are smart and respect me. And people who can relax about their sexuality and just have a good time!
He also included a Camille Crimson page on his site with a few video trailers, a video on The Infinite Ache and a little post about my favourite song used in one of my videos on his music page. What a sweet and amazing guy, right?
I should really get back to work but I will be back soon with more posts.